Jkelmum
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Jake is turned 13 in october is in yr 8 at highschool
Last july while lookin for his trainers i stummbled across at least 3 wks worth of mouldy sandwiches I asked why he hadnt been eatin his pack up and why he hadnt put them in the bin to be told I start playing football and forget ....Now Jake at home eats loads all his meals veg u name it he will eat it so at this point i tend to believe him.....So as it was only 2 wks left at school i made him come home and eat his lunch then when they went back in september i did the same until oct half term in which by this time he was beggin to go bk to school for lunchtimes ....I spoke to him and even said if u dont eat then throw them away if u fancy school lunch one day then ask .....Move forward to about 4wks ago Jake was upstairs with his friend and i find half pk of cookies i ask where they came from and he says there his friends and they been sharin them so i leave it at that until i see this friends mum who informs me jake had about 5 pounds worth of crisps sweets cookies and doughnuts and she saw him eat loads ...so i confront jake for lyin to me he admits they was his and he had used some of his christmas money to buy them so i ask wtf does he need all these he says all his friends put to to get loads and that then chris his friend came out and doesnt get on with these boys so he went of with chris ,......i left it
Tonight i went searching for a pen in his school bag to find loads of mouldy sandwhiches and dont know what to do also broken glasses that dont look like they was broke my accideint ...he claimed they was in his locker at school
I now am worried he may have a eatin disorder ....not eatin lunch and bingeing on food are the only two signs i have BUT why else would he leave them to go mouldy i know it maybe laziness BUT after getting caught b4 i dont think he would dare again or is this a cry for help
any advice would be great
Last july while lookin for his trainers i stummbled across at least 3 wks worth of mouldy sandwiches I asked why he hadnt been eatin his pack up and why he hadnt put them in the bin to be told I start playing football and forget ....Now Jake at home eats loads all his meals veg u name it he will eat it so at this point i tend to believe him.....So as it was only 2 wks left at school i made him come home and eat his lunch then when they went back in september i did the same until oct half term in which by this time he was beggin to go bk to school for lunchtimes ....I spoke to him and even said if u dont eat then throw them away if u fancy school lunch one day then ask .....Move forward to about 4wks ago Jake was upstairs with his friend and i find half pk of cookies i ask where they came from and he says there his friends and they been sharin them so i leave it at that until i see this friends mum who informs me jake had about 5 pounds worth of crisps sweets cookies and doughnuts and she saw him eat loads ...so i confront jake for lyin to me he admits they was his and he had used some of his christmas money to buy them so i ask wtf does he need all these he says all his friends put to to get loads and that then chris his friend came out and doesnt get on with these boys so he went of with chris ,......i left it
Tonight i went searching for a pen in his school bag to find loads of mouldy sandwhiches and dont know what to do also broken glasses that dont look like they was broke my accideint ...he claimed they was in his locker at school
I now am worried he may have a eatin disorder ....not eatin lunch and bingeing on food are the only two signs i have BUT why else would he leave them to go mouldy i know it maybe laziness BUT after getting caught b4 i dont think he would dare again or is this a cry for help
any advice would be great