Is it just me???

[x_Rainbow_x]

wow iv just seen 2.. quite shocked...

 

[NeyNey]

Girls please remember there is a "report post" option on the left hand side of the users comment, below their "online status". If you feel a comment is not appropriate please report it to us moderators or admin and we will look into it for you.

 

[Wobbles]

If you find a post offensive you need to inform a mod or admin either by PM or pressing the report post link.

I think to save this kind of topic again we may turn of the signaures fullstop but that will be a negative on the girls who use this section for support. We may say 'turn off your siggys' but it doesn't mean they have read that notice

I do also need to clear up that this is not just for long term TTC'ers this section is for those with known problems who may face problems and feel comfortable here and those who are about to start or are being seen for assisted conception.

Am I right that this thread is one of the upsetting parties?
https://www.babyandbump.com/secondary-infertility/92294-comment-today-upset-me.html
I will be contacting those members to use some common sense when posting in sensitive areas ...I do agree girls.

Hope I'm making sense my eyes are rolling in the back of my head atm

x

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

your making sence wobbles dont worry

i think what was ment not at the ppl who havent been trying as long more at the people who are preg so easily thinking its a walk in the park for us to.
id hate the tickers to go as i love seeing ppls prgress and next tests tickers.

 

[Wobbles]

Yer the tickers would be a bummer but we've been here before where rather than talking to a mod/admin a heated topic came up and the result of that was some very uncomfortable members some scared to post incase they were told they were not allowed etc and we considered some rules but waited to see how it pans out.

Will get some viable rules instead of a sticky up very soon - they will be breif and to the point then after that its helpful when you let us know theres a problem girls.

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Ok thats very fair

 

[vineyard]

I think my thread titled "possible miscarriage" might contain one of the comments she's referring to. I'm unsure though.

 

[mer01]

I just wanted to say to all you lovely ladies, You are all like a life line to me and i wish I'd joined this site when we started ttc 2 years ago. I consider you all valuable friends. I couldn't cope without this outlet, (my oh is rather grateful too as it stops me biting his head off!!!).
Sorry for the blarb but i'm feeling a bit emotional today

lots and lots of

Mer

xxx

 

[Alexas Mommy]

I am sorry if I have ever posted anything I should not have in this section... I only ever post support, and empathy/sympathy. I didn't ever think that by posting empathy/sympathy ever would be "inappropriate" and cause grief, but if it has I am truly sorry to anyone I have offended, if I have.

 

[JASMAK]

If you find a post offensive you need to inform a mod or admin either by PM or pressing the report post link.

I think to save this kind of topic again we may turn of the signaures fullstop but that will be a negative on the girls who use this section for support. We may say 'turn off your siggys' but it doesn't mean they have read that notice

I do also need to clear up that this is not just for long term TTC'ers this section is for those with known problems who may face problems and feel comfortable here and those who are about to start or are being seen for assisted conception.

Am I right that this thread is one of the upsetting parties?
https://www.babyandbump.com/secondary-infertility/92294-comment-today-upset-me.html
I will be contacting those members to use some common sense when posting in sensitive areas ...I do agree girls.

Hope I'm making sense my eyes are rolling in the back of my head atm

x

Yes, that was the one, but also another one that I think it was vineyard's??? About her being worried... These were new to this site people too...

 

[FJL]

I am sorry if I have ever posted anything I should not have in this section... I only ever post support, and empathy/sympathy. I didn't ever think that by posting empathy/sympathy ever would be "inappropriate" and cause grief, but if it has I am truly sorry to anyone I have offended, if I have.

I've never seen you be offensive at all, and I think a lot of the members in this section quite like it when anyone comes in to offer support. What isn't appreciated is when people post insensitive comments (again, nothing you've written) or those that seem to flash their easy to get pregnancy around.

Wobbles & NeyNey - You guys are all doing a great job and yep, we have to remember to report any bad posts to you guys. I too like the progress tickers of members in this section, and I understand that without turning them off full stop, you can't stop people posting their preg tickers. I think the support you guys give to this kind of thing is amazing and very much appreciated.

 

[CurlySue]

I think my thread titled "possible miscarriage" might contain one of the comments she's referring to. I'm unsure though.

I thought that one was rather flippant...

 

[CareBear]

I am sorry if I have ever posted anything I should not have in this section... I only ever post support, and empathy/sympathy. I didn't ever think that by posting empathy/sympathy ever would be "inappropriate" and cause grief, but if it has I am truly sorry to anyone I have offended, if I have.

I've never seen you be offensive at all, and I think a lot of the members in this section quite like it when anyone comes in to offer support. What isn't appreciated is when people post insensitive comments (again, nothing you've written) or those that seem to flash their easy to get pregnancy around.

Wobbles & NeyNey - You guys are all doing a great job and yep, we have to remember to report any bad posts to you guys. I too like the progress tickers of members in this section, and I understand that without turning them off full stop, you can't stop people posting their preg tickers. I think the support you guys give to this kind of thing is amazing and very much appreciated.

I agree wholeheartedly with FJL and there was a very flippant comment in Vineyard's post that Curlysue above refers too which was the comment I was referring to as coming across as very rude

 

[CurlySue]

Well, we should all relax and it will happen, dontchya know? These people are doing us a FAVOUR.

 

[Vestirse]

I hadn't read the comments you all are talking about when I asked who was not supposed to post here. I totally understand though why you'd feel this way though after reading them. They made me very angry too. Just thoughtless of these people.

And the whole relax notion needs to die.