Is it too quick? Advice please

[fairydust87]

Me and FOB were together 2 half years and last summer broke up because of trust issues etc. We had a one night thing and our son was conceived. I feel we were pressured into getting back together. FOB was quite nasty during our break and my love for him faded. It wasn't until he moved in with me and LO I saw I didn't really love him he was more like a brother. We weren't intimate and I was only with him for LO sake. I realised that was wrong so ended it on Monday. We are amicable. When we had broke up I met a guy I had a strong connection with now I have started speaking to him again he has told me to come round to his to hang out on the weekend when FOB has LO. Is this too quick after a break up. I would feel bad I don't know why its like it hasn't been a week since we were living together now Im going to hang out with someone else (as friends) If FOB knew this he would be upset as he says he still loves me misses me etc.

What should I do? x

 

[Jennifurball]

I can see you would feel guilty but it sounds like it has been over (in your head) for a long while so it isn't such a big deal. He is bound to be upset whether you see someone tomorrow or next year.

I hate my ex, he has ruined my life but the thought of him being with someone else still kills me. Life is tough but you have to put yourself first. (and LO of course!)

 

[jaytee146]

Totally agree with pp sounds like you truly let go and moved on and this last time was to make sure for your lo's sake nothing was there. if you're feeling a certain way why don't you wait a while before hanging out with this guy on a one on one level you've done what most women couldn.'t you let go and moved on for you and lo's happiness. nothing wrong with that