Is there a place for mums like me?

[sequeena]

Is there anywhere on here where mums like me can talk? We really want to TTC again. We have an almost 5 year old son. It may never happen. Not only do I have quite severe PCOS but our son is disabled and mainly undiagnosed. We don't know what the future will be. We know his problems stem from a genetic condition. One that I likely carry and pass only onto males (familial history). We just started a new genetic study to find a diagnosis.

I can not get excited about WTT. What is before WTT? I can't even think about TTC. It's breaking my heart. 1 sibling for our little boy. One more baby to love that's all We want

 

[Aelyana]

I honestly don't know but didn't want to read and run. Hugs!

 

[sequeena]

Thank you

It's a really hard situation and I wish I could just stop think in about it. I'm trying so hard to be responsible. I'm not sure it would be fair to have another child and I don't know how it would impact on my son either.

But the thought of him being alone when we pass away is horrible I don't know if he Will have a family of his own.

 

[Aelyana]

Have you tried posting about this in the special needs forum? Maybe people there have had questions like yours?

I can't imagine how hard this must be for you. And I hope you get some answers on your son's diagnosis soon.

I actually am a younger sibling to a brother with pretty serious mental disabilities. I really have no answers I just know my parents went through this also and how difficult it was for them.

So yeah not sure what I am trying to say. Just wanted to send hugs and strength your way