Is there such thing as 'too soon' ?

[teenagemother]

When is the right time?
I feel as though if I was to become pregnant anytime soon I'd be judged for doing so?

How long did you weight?
Was it planned or did it just happen?

I'm so scared, I don't want to go through 9 months of hell because I know I'm expecting a still birth - again.

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[ncmommy]

Only you and your partner can answer that question. People judge no matter what so don't worry about that. I'm so sorry for your loss and best wishes to you!

 

[MamaTex]

I seriously started TTC shortly after my natural miscarriage, before AF arrived. It still hasn't arrived and I am on the look out for that or a BFP. I could really give a hoot what people say about it. I did make sure to go back to monitor my HCG levels as they went down so once I got the all clear from my doctor I went ahead and started TTC. This is easier said than done, but don't be scared. Be confident in yourself and in your decisions

 

[jessandaj]

Only you know whats right for you, if someone doesnt agree then thats there problem. They probally have never had a loss. If your ready to start trying again then you should. Me and my partner tried this month and i havint even had a period since my loss but i didint want to wait i was devastated from my loss and just wanted to get the ball rolling again being it took so long the first time and im ready now, if people judge you for that then ignore them.

 

[avapopsmum]

We started trying after my first AF after losing our baby at 21 weeks. I was lucky enough to fall pregnant again on that cycle. We haven't told our families yet and only my OH and my best friend know about this baby so far.

You should do whatever feels right for you hun. Good luck with whatever you decide xx

 

[Kathleen1994]

well i was ntnp in august and i guess it was my month i had a blighted ovum they told me june 21st but i had bleeding in may took misoprostol took a week for it to work so i ended up having a period on the 28th..

the doctors say 1 month if it was in the early pregnancy and only you can judge we don't judge here don't forget

 

[MumToEva]

I think it's very much down to how you feel yourself. I've had 2 miscarriages, one at 10 weeks and this one was 8 weeks, and the first time I needed to take some time off from TTC for my own mental well being, but this time we decided we wanted to start TTC without waiting for AF. But then I imagine it's quite a bit different with a stillbirth than with first trimester losses. I had a healthy little girl between my 2 miscarriages, and you don't stop worrying the whole way through, though my pregnancy was difficult which was probably part of it. I'm too early to test yet, but I'm starting to feel that familiar sickness creeping in again - I know I won't stop worrying till the end this time too, whichever way it goes. Sorry, that's probably not much help! But just go with what feels right to you and your OH, and never worry what other people think. True friends will be happy for you.