Is this wrong?

[baileylee123]

I recently went to the gynecologist. He told mehe is pretty sure endometriosis. I have a lap in February to diagnose it. He told me if i was thinking about conceiving and did have endo the best time would be after the laparoscopy because endometriosis can cause infertility in your later years. Which i already knew alot of people in my family have Endometriosis, including my mom(she had me at 19). My gynecologist also has told me to take prenatals. I want to start a family after my lap if i do have endo i have wanted kids my whole life. My fiance is 21 and I'm 18 we both have full time jobs with benefits. I explained the situation to my family the were very supportive and then I explained it to his mom who told me I was not to have kids this young with her son. If it is my only chance would it be wrong to take advantage of it? My fiance said he is ready if I am.

 

[subaru555]

I had to do the same as you!Go for it or you might regret it one day. - Look at me - I'm 6 years into ttc with no luck and being sent for ivf as our only hope.

 

[NeyNey]

Well he is right, if they burn off a lot of the Endo in the Lap, your highest chance of conceiving will be right afterwards. But that alone should not be your reason for having a baby hun, you can always have another lap in 5 or so years to clean out again. but if you feel you are ready...and TBH, no one knows that better than you and your Fiancee. So just work out what is best for the both of you..

 

[sparkle83]

agreed. I started at 16, and I'm still here lol

 

[Alchemist]

I explained the situation to my family the were very supportive and then I explained it to his mom who told me I was not to have kids this young with her son. If it is my only chance would it be wrong to take advantage of it? My fiance said he is ready if I am.

I have an issue with parents telling their kids what they can or cant do IF they are responsible (and you and your Fiance sound like you are and have thought and discussed it). Quite frankly you are both adults and will have to bear the consequences of your decisions (having kids is trying after all, even trying to have kids is).

You dont need anyones approval, just do what you guys think is right.......