Isn't it a shame???

[bky]

I didn't join BnB until I was 11 weeks as I was too scared to talk to anyone. The forum I used during my previous MC was kind of lonely and empty, so I was hesitant.
PAL only showed up sometime when I was in 2nd tri, but by then I'd mainly gotten used to being in the other sections. I feel reasonably at home in the regular pregnancy sections now, though it took me until closer to 24 weeks before I felt substantially less nervous (not, not nervous, I don't think I'll ever be not nervous ).

 

[Las78]

I'm the same, I didn't go onto 1st tri board other than once or twice, 2nd tri very occasionally and same with 3rd tri, I dip in and out and occasionally leave a message but it's PAL that I always come to first - I feel I can relate to others on here more than on the tri boards and I'm always so worried about posting something about my mc that may upset someone or scare others as I had a 2nd tri loss and you just don't even consider these things might happen until it's happened to you.

 

[Bingo]

I'm the opposite, I tend only to pop in here occassionally but spend my time looking through second tri, pregnancy club and baby club because I want to feel positive and not dwell on my loss and fears. I do like to offer supportive posts in threads that I can relate to or that really touch me though.

 

[LunaBean]

Im afraid to post in first tri too, just incase!

 

[Beadette]

Thanks for all your replies ladies.

Since writing this I have to say that I have started to venture over there occassionally to read. I have replied if I feel I can help but I don't want to frighten anyone over there or ruin anyone's PMA.

I guess I like this board as I know you ALL know to some extent what I feel like and what I have been through. Just like I know hw you feel etc.

I think before I had my MMC, I knew people who had MC'd and I thought I could imagine how they felt but nothing comes close to the reality until you have experienced it yourself.

Far from dwelling on my loss (although I do sometimes but its still early days really!), I find that I am encouraged by this board as there are so many wonderful success stories for me to focus on! That is the best PMA builder ever!

Thank you all x x x x x x x x

Thanks all of you

 

[Jox]

Thanks for all your replies ladies.

Since writing this I have to say that I have started to venture over there occassionally to read. I have replied if I feel I can help but I don't want to frighten anyone over there or ruin anyone's PMA.

I guess I like this board as I know you ALL know to some extent what I feel like and what I have been through. Just like I know hw you feel etc.

I think before I had my MMC, I knew people who had MC'd and I thought I could imagine how they felt but nothing comes close to the reality until you have experienced it yourself.

Far from dwelling on my loss (although I do sometimes but its still early days really!), I find that I am encouraged by this board as there are so many wonderful success stories for me to focus on! That is the best PMA builder ever!

Thank you all x x x x x x x x

Thanks all of you

I unfortunately know only too well how this feels.

Dont think it will ever subside with me until my baby is screaming loudly in my arms in October!

xxx