Its official

[purpledahlia]

FOB has ignored the letter from CSA, so theyve assumed parentage.

He didnt confirm or deny, just ignored. Theyve gone to inland revenue now,

Hes missed out on so much, he will have to live with that for the rest of his life. knowing he did jack all.

 

[teal]

Just have no idea what goes on in their heads.

Definitely his loss and he'll regret it one day!

xx

 

[sweetlullaby]

Awwww well its his loss

xx

 

[lou_w34]

He's a tosser!
He will soon realise what he has done in years to come, and by then it will be too late!

 

[purpledahlia]

anyone know what happens after , she just told me but then i forgot! aahh, lol. They send something else out but i cant remember what, and then they take the money if he ignores it..

 

[Pyrrhic]

It makes me furious how some men can just think it's ok to walk away, pretend it never happened and move on with their lives. Like it's some kind of right. Ignorant tossers!

Big hugs hun

 

[nievesmama]

Like the others have said its his loss x

 

[lauramarie]

agree it his loss, and he will regret it, really don't know what goes through their heads.

not sure what happens hun, in my case they informed him that it would be taken from his wages and then the contact his employer for pay slips etc, which they use to work out maintenence. only took a few weeks for them to set up a deduction of earnings in my case.

 

[Katieeeee]

You know I know how you feel my deary x

 

[AppleBlossom]

I don't get how someone can walk away from their own child and just carry on like they don't exist. Makes me so mad!!! He is the only one that will lose out anyway

 

[purpledahlia]

I dont get it either. Well its his problem, his concience. Not that he seems to have any at this time!

We'll see. Ive no idea if he can ring up now and cause issues or if the CSA say well tough youve had the letter and not replied in the week.

 

[KaeRit21]

his loss huni, he'll have to deal with that in years to come!

xxx

 

[suzanne108]

what an idiot.

How long did they give him to reply? I'm waiting on mine to be sorted x

 

[purpledahlia]

i dont know tbh, i *think* it was a week, which isnt very long actually. But i dont know, i just rang up to see what was happening and they told me that he'd ignored their letter and have gone to inland revenue.

 

[suzanne108]

When did you apply Claire?

I sent mine 2 and a half weeks ago...says something about 4 weeks on the website. I know I can't really rely on that but just wondered how long it'd been for you? x