It's so wierd

[angelpkj]

takes two people to make a baby
but only one to bring it up

it really does tho,baby lives off our body,we provide breast milk,they've got that bond with us-our smell and the sound of our heartbeat,the only acknowledgement LO will have of FOB is the sound of their voice but everything else is down to us

it's nice to have a FOB around to help and that but we don't actully need them and neither does LO

or is this my mad crazy way of thinking to help deal with being a single mum?

 

[Newdreemz]

I think in some ways your correct. LO doesn't NEED FOB's help, and your right we don't need them. Women are built for this but that doesn't mean this is the way its meant to be. There is nothing like a man and woman raising a child together. Nothing like a child being loved by two parents instead of one.

We can do anything we put our minds too, and I mean ANYTHING but there is a NEED for more GREAT FATHERS. But as I said luckily were BUILT for this.