Ive agreed to go on a date tonight - I must be bloody mad! aaarrrgghh

[edinsam]

Really having second thoughts now - its sad to say but I just cant be arsed! sorry for bad language

After my 9 months of hell I vowed never ever again but I've been worn down and agreed to go for dinner tonight

Im sitting here looking at Lils and thinking I just dont want to go.

Seriously I just dont even think I could be civil to another man at the moment - the last year has made me soooo bitter....

Its too late to pull out now though...

Hope I dont end up being nasty!!

 

[purpledahlia]

aww no it will be nice for you to get out and experience a 'nice' male creature!! report back and let us know how it goes! x

 

[Pyrrhic]

Just go for the free food and conversation then

 

[McLovin]

yay! let us know how it goes. I couldn't do it - I can't hide my bitterness from anyone! x

 

[edinsam]

purp - is there such a thing lol?

raf - i intend to lol!!! expensive place for dinner and hey im a single mom now so just going to let him pay

mclovin - thats what im worried about - dont want my man hatred to kick in!!!

will report back (prob last out half hour or so lol!!!)

 

[precious-gift]

go for it sam, you may have a great time, you could give us all a bit of hope, enjoy yourself and report back x

 

[edinsam]

thanks precious - will do....

means i actually have to get dressed properly today for once lol!

 

[xxannxx]

I would say go for it, if nothing else its a good chance to get dressed up and have nice dinner.

 

[expecting09]

Ahh it'll be nice to get dolled up and wined and dined(for free)! Enjoy x

 

[Aidedhoney]

Hey how brilliant is that, you go and you have a brill time if anything its a new friend in your social circle.

Knock him dead xxx

 

[tinkabells]

Awwww no go for it and enjoy yaself, if its crap, then least ya went and no it, rather than think what if, know what ya mean though, met a guy and he keeps asking to take me out etc, but i know in myself im not ready plus, still wlaking bit funny cos of me stitches so i dont think that would look good and and cant fit properly into me old clothes or shoes lol xxx

 

[bloodbinds]

Try to put thhe man hating aside and just have a good time Let us know how it goes!

 

[edinsam]

Awwww no go for it and enjoy yaself, if its crap, then least ya went and no it, rather than think what if, know what ya mean though, met a guy and he keeps asking to take me out etc, but i know in myself im not ready plus, still wlaking bit funny cos of me stitches so i dont think that would look good and and cant fit properly into me old clothes or shoes lol xxx

Aw hun i know

I was size 12 before pregnancy took over - now 14/16 - its grim!

Luckily my shoes still fit

Yes it would be a bit weird to be walking funny.. Luckily enough I had no stitches, grazing nothing so I am walking very well! lol. Its the only part thats good!

 

[tinkabells]

Awwww no go for it and enjoy yaself, if its crap, then least ya went and no it, rather than think what if, know what ya mean though, met a guy and he keeps asking to take me out etc, but i know in myself im not ready plus, still wlaking bit funny cos of me stitches so i dont think that would look good and and cant fit properly into me old clothes or shoes lol xxx

Aw hun i know

I was size 12 before pregnancy took over - now 14/16 - its grim!

Luckily my shoes still fit

Yes it would be a bit weird to be walking funny.. Luckily enough I had no stitches, grazing nothing so I am walking very well! lol. Its the only part thats good!

Yeah i was the same a nice 12 and now a rubber belly 14/16 depends on what i am wearing!!! and dont think leggins or joggers would go down well for me lol
Haha no my feel and hands still little swollen cant get me rings on either, well done on the grazing, im like a john wayne healing lol xxx

 

[edinsam]

Awwww no go for it and enjoy yaself, if its crap, then least ya went and no it, rather than think what if, know what ya mean though, met a guy and he keeps asking to take me out etc, but i know in myself im not ready plus, still wlaking bit funny cos of me stitches so i dont think that would look good and and cant fit properly into me old clothes or shoes lol xxx

Aw hun i know

I was size 12 before pregnancy took over - now 14/16 - its grim!

Luckily my shoes still fit

Yes it would be a bit weird to be walking funny.. Luckily enough I had no stitches, grazing nothing so I am walking very well! lol. Its the only part thats good!

Yeah i was the same a nice 12 and now a rubber belly 14/16 depends on what i am wearing!!! and dont think leggins or joggers would go down well for me lol
Haha no my feel and hands still little swollen cant get me rings on either, well done on the grazing, im like a john wayne healing lol xxx

Lol too funny hun. I am sure we will get back to that lovely size 12 again! I need to - refusing to buy any new clothes until I do!!!

 

[tinkabells]

Awwww no go for it and enjoy yaself, if its crap, then least ya went and no it, rather than think what if, know what ya mean though, met a guy and he keeps asking to take me out etc, but i know in myself im not ready plus, still wlaking bit funny cos of me stitches so i dont think that would look good and and cant fit properly into me old clothes or shoes lol xxx

Aw hun i know

I was size 12 before pregnancy took over - now 14/16 - its grim!

Luckily my shoes still fit

Yes it would be a bit weird to be walking funny.. Luckily enough I had no stitches, grazing nothing so I am walking very well! lol. Its the only part thats good!

Yeah i was the same a nice 12 and now a rubber belly 14/16 depends on what i am wearing!!! and dont think leggins or joggers would go down well for me lol
Haha no my feel and hands still little swollen cant get me rings on either, well done on the grazing, im like a john wayne healing lol xxx

Lol too funny hun. I am sure we will get back to that lovely size 12 again! I need to - refusing to buy any new clothes until I do!!!

I know, i want to lose some weight for my birthdya next month, and my works xmas do in december, gotta wear poxy cocktail dress!!!!
but we shall lose the weight, and fit into clothes, shoes, jewellery anything and everything haha
but go on ya date though, go for it, give it ago, if not its something to laugh about and free meal ;-) xxx

 

[edinsam]

will keep ya posted hun

For me I have to go back to work beside the bloody moron ex and everyone is already piling on the pressure saying "oh sam we cannot wait until the first day back as we know you are gonna stroll in here looking slinky and slim again and gorgeous"

Nothing like piling on the pressure huh! lol

 

[precious-gift]

oh don't get started on baby weight, i have a wedding in four weeks, have a dress, if i don't fit into it im just not going, refuse to buy another one. maybe be good excuse not to go, never been to a wedding by myself before!

oh and the walking like john wayne, i can relate to, do you think ill be healed in four weeks? could be another excuse not to go!

 

[amazed]

hope it goes well and you have fun xx

 

[edinsam]

oh don't get started on baby weight, i have a wedding in four weeks, have a dress, if i don't fit into it im just not going, refuse to buy another one. maybe be good excuse not to go, never been to a wedding by myself before!

oh and the walking like john wayne, i can relate to, do you think ill be healed in four weeks? could be another excuse not to go!

Between you and tinks I now have cowboy music playing away in my head now!!!!