I've never posted in here before..

[Lyrah]

Hi girls.

Sorry to intrude.

Ummm..

I had a m/c at the end of February. I was 7+4 and had been TTC for 8 months.

The problem is, I still am finding it very hard to get over. I think about my bump all the time and I have continuous dreams of my baby.

I keep hugging my tummy and looking at it, realizing that it was my babys home for just over 7 weeks, and that by now, if baby was still curled up tight and snuggly in there, I would maybe be showing now. I would be around 18 weeks I think.

Anyway I just feel really gutted. I don't know how to overcome this. I wanted my baby so much and I'm so upset that bubba was taken from me.

 

[jenn2282]

hey i know the feeling, i lost mine at 9 weeks in april, and i have yet to get over it. I think in time we both will be okay. I still have a hard time believing the baby(i named it Skyler) is gone. i find seeing babies and pregnant people hard right now.

i'm sorry for you loss *hugs*

 

[catfromaus]

Lets hope it will get better. I lost my baby (named her Aiden) at 9 weeks 2 weeks ago. I keep thinking about her, and it is definitely still hard to see other pregnant women. But never feel like you are intruding here- I have found it such a place of support and understanding. You are always welcome to share.

Cat
xxx

 

[orange-sox]

Oh hun

You know where I am if you want to talk... I understand how you feel, I constantly go through all of these emotions and although talking about Seb seems to help lift the constant cloud of hurt, I know he's never coming back and it makes me feel sick all the time.

Have you thought about giving bubba a name? I know it helps a lot of women to name their angels, even if it's a nickname that you used for him/her?

What I'm trying to say in my own mixed up way is... you're not alone, not by a long stretch and we're all for you, especially me.

All my love to you, and special floaty angel kisses to bubba from Seb and I xxxx

 

[DiddyDons]

I know how you feel hun. Its so hard I carried Sophie for 25 weeks and I miss everything about being pregnant... I miss my little girl so much it hurts, but I miss being preg just the same....after all it was the only time I knew her alive

Take it easy on yourself

 

[babytots]

hun losing a baby is the hardest thing we have to go through and the pain never fully goes it just gets easier to cope with over time.

one day you will be pg again hun and get your much wanted baby. i really wish none of us had to post in here! x

 

[cherylanne]

Aw hun, i'm so sorry for your loss. I felt the same for months after i had my m/c last year, i thought i was going to go mad, i took it really hard. I thought the feelings of loss would never go, but it does get easier. Give yourself time hun and it will get easier. My thoughts are with you xx