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Jelous of ex's new gf playing 'mummy!?'

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Oliver's dad has a new girlfriend and i hate the thought of her being around my son! Anyone else feel like this?? x
 
Hi there

Yes most mums do feel like that and it is perfectly normal, I think anyway!
 
It was a while before Jacks dad got a new GF but when he did it was v weird......the first time i met her there was no intro just her in my face telling me what was wrong with my son (he was crying at the time), so ijust listened to his dad n blanked her out...i thought 'Who the hell are you, telling me whats up with Jack, never even met you before'!
Seeing pictures of her n Jack together was wierd too!
I spose im used to it now but we dont speak.I just think well ya never know they might not even be together next week lol so not worth worrying.
Its prob worse for his dad cos i got married to an amazing guy recently and we are so happy just me,hubby and Jack ;)
 
I'd imagine it would be difficult. But you have to remember little Oliver only has one mummy! :D
 
Oh I have the same problem, not met her and found out about her through a friend. He said he found it too difficult to tell me (I finished with him when I was 3 month preg) before the birth - Rihanna is 9 week old now!! Grrr

Anyways, could tell he was with someone with all the questions he keeps coming out with.... and his texts are containing words that he couldnt even say never mind spell. lol

But as the other ladies say, our babies only have one MUMMY....

xxxxxxx
 
it does get better hun i'm 10 yrs down the road, and i had my ex's gf telling me what foods rosie likes to eat as she's a teacher and knows what children need to be healthy lol, i had to really bite my tongue,
i don't see her now and rosies dad only see's her every other week as she want to go out and play with her mates, and when she's 16 i doubt she'll be bothered at all it'll be a crimbo birthday thing, rosie thinks her step mum is mardy lol.
i was jealous to start with especially when they took her on holiday and couldnt afford to but now i'm the one she wants to be with all the time. it does take time but you do get used to it, as long as she's really nice him and cares for him and they put him 1st when they have him thats what matters.
x
 
:hugs:

Lola's dad has a girlfriend too,who is the dumbest person you'll ever get a chance to meet! They're not serious or anything but still I really don't like the thought of her being anywhere near Lola.Mostly because she's so stupid and I can't imagine a person I'd trust less than her.
 
Yes my bf has a kid and i think frmo the new gf prospective (which is where im at) i do not in any way shape or form want to play mummy to his kid with his ex, no way!! infact if anything that is exactly what i DONT want. i dont want anyone to think im playing mummy or enjoying it. Si's kid is sweet and all and i look after him like i would any child, make sure hes happy and we get on very well. but i draw the line at things like kisses goodnight, too many cuddles and he tends to say i love you to me when Si does... but i said no to this. because i want him to see me as nice and someone he can rely on but in no way a mother figure....

I dont know if this helps and i am 100million% sure id be awful if i was the mother and it was my ex's new gf, but seeing it from this angle makes me realise how no matter how much time you spend with somebody elses child, you just cant bond in a motherly way.
 
I don't care.. Tom's dad doesn't want to know us since he got his new bird.
 
It's better for the baby's dad to have a twitty, self-important girlfriend who tries to care for the baby properly when s/he is with his dad...even though she has a really annoying way of going about it...than some mean girl who'll try to talk the dad out of taking care of him.

Just my two cents.
 

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