Joining up here after MC/D&C in January

[Krakir]

*rant alert?!?!*


So tomorrow is officially 7 months since my D&C. and i really really thought I would be pregnant by now! Coming up to our due date soon and i'm feeling very emotional. AF came really early this month, which felt a little bit like a slap in the not-pregnant-face. My husband is fairly supportive, thank goodness, but i'm not sure he really understands (or wants to hear??) about how I feel about the loss. We're going to start really trying this month, I'm just hoping it doesn't come across more painful if we don't get pregnant if we're TRYING trying. So many concerns keep running around my head like what if something with the d&c is making it harder to get pregnant, or if my c-section from my first baby has made me infertile/unable to carry full term, or if i'm just too overweight?! I'm afraid to start on this journey of really TTC because I'm afraid of failing when I became pregnant so quickly/easily the last times. Sorry for the rant! Hopefully I can find some good OV/two week wait/testing buddies for august

 

[WP0609]

Hi Krakir!
I can totally relate to this. I had a miscarriage and d&c in December (two days before Christmas). We used Clomid to get pregnant (3rd cycle, 200mg). My husband was/is supportive but doesn't seem to want to talk about it as much as I do. We were given the go ahead to try again in April. We did 100mg of Clomid again and got pregnant right away. Unfortunately I started bleeding at 5 weeks and was told I was having another miscarriage. Well, I actually ended up having an ectopic pregnancy. I had two rounds of methotrexate but eventually ended up needing emergency surgery due to internal bleeding. I lost my left tube. We decided to go see a fertility specialist. She was very optimistic. I have an HSG test scheduled for Thursday and am suppose to start taking Clomid again tomorrow. This will be our first cycle trying since the ectopic. I'm extremely nervous. We've gotten pregnant both times I was on the 100mg on Clomid so I'm anxious to see how having one tube will effect me. Would love an OV/TWW/test buddy!