July 2014 buddies

[Mrs W 11]

Oh thank you Fleur! Those stats really do help! The trouble with google is for every good story you can find a bad one and I need to try and stay positive. I just worry about a mmc as i stopped feeling sick about 9 weeks which did seem early and my boobs have never been sore which they were with my last pregnancy.

It has been 24 hours now though and it hasn't worsened or come to anything and like you say if it was happening I'd assume by now it would be getting worse.

Anyway fingers crossed and thank you so much for helping me so much today. It really has made me feeling better logging on to your replies. Ill call the mw tomorrow and update after work tomorrow.

Thank you again you've made me feel so much better than I was xxx

 

[pinksmarties]

Mrs W - hugs Sorry you've had such a bad couple of days. I had brown discharge earlier on the pg again when straining on the loo and it is such a worry. I had bright red bleeding 3 days before my 12 week scan last time (got scanned and all okay) but any bleeding is so scary. Hope the mw is good with you tomorrow.

Fleur - hope things have settled down. I though things were getting better but they came back with a vengeance yesterday including sickness.

twinmom - it is a bit of a worry the first time. Have you managed to work it out so we get to see a pic?

afm - I have my 12 week/NT scan tomorrow.

 

[TwinMommy6]

Unfortunately I only have access to the Internet with with my phone---I think if I email to myself and upload to my desktop that should solve the problem

 

[Fleur29]

Mrs W hope all is ok - did you see/speak to the MW yet? Thinking of you!

Sorry that you feel ropey pinksmarties - i still have the odd day. I am so hungry this morning I feel like i could eat a horse!!!!!!! Not long til lunchtime. I cant concentrate I'm so hungry (and bored too!!) - need to get some more snacks for my desk I think...

Thats exciting you have your scan tomorrow - make sure you come and update us! What time is it?

twinmommy - i've never been able to figure out how to get pics up on here!!!! i'm useless though

xx

 

[Mrs W 11]

Good luck tomorrow pink, let us know how it goes! Enjoy seeing baby.

Thanks for thinking of me fleur. My mw was really great this morning. She's referred me to the epu but they can't see me until tomorrow unfortunately, but that's still much better than waiting for my 12 wk scan a week today. So I've got an emergency scan tomorrow morning. I'm still bleeding, it's still brown but still stringy bits in it (tmi sorry!!) and back achey still.

Trying to stay positive but feeling very nervous about hearing bad news tomorrow. Praying all will be ok. Ill update after the scan xx

 

[Fleur29]

I'm so pleased your mw was sympathetic and has got you in for an early scan - thats really great. Totally understand how nervous you must be feeling but not long to wait now.

Its so natural to feel nervous but hopefully you will get into your scan and see your baby jumping around. I cried with relief when I had my scan as I'd been so wound up beforehand. Its horrible hope hubby is looking after you and you're managing to rest up xx

 

[TwinMommy6]

Random question

I notice that a lot of you ladies post when I'm still sleeping lol....
Just wondering where where everyone is from?
I am in London ontario Canada

And pinksmarties--how did your scan go today?
Mrs W good luck tmrw can't wait to hear your good news from your scan as well!!!

Hope you're all feeling good xx

 

[Mrs W 11]

I'm in the uk twinmom, in Sussex, England. It's 8am here.

I'm pretty sure the scan won't hold good news today but I'm still praying. The blood was red last night, with tissuey bits. I haven't had any over night but this morning it's there when I wipe, plus I feel abit periody. Other things I've noticed like my symptoms & sickness disappeared about 9 weeks and I can't feel my uterus above my pubic bone.

I'm dreading hearing bad news at the scan. Will update later xx

 

[pinksmarties]

Thinking of you today Mrs W. I had red bleeding at 12 weeks with B so I hope everything is okay with you.

twinmom - I am UK too. I managed to reduce the resolution/pixels of the phone camera (down to 0.3m) and thats still a good enough picture and small enough to put on here.

Hi everyone, hope you are all well.

afm - scan went well she was at it for ages as bubs was bouncing about too much t get any measurements. She really pressed on me and at times was quite painful. I even had to get off the bed to jump around hoping to get the bubs to change position. In the end we got there. Had bloods done for the combined ds test. I'll try to put a pic up later

 

[Fleur29]

mrs w - thinking of you this morning. I really hope all is ok xxxx

pinksmarties - so glad your scan went well! I am always surprised at how firmly they press too - it just goes to show that all the toddler punches are probably nothing to worry about as baby so far inside at the moment

I too am in the UK, near Oxford XX

 

[Mrs W 11]

It wasn't good news ladies. There was just a feral pole with no heartbeat. The baby probably died at 7 ish weeks. I've an appoint tomorrow to discuss what to do next to bring on the miscarriage.

I'm in a lot of shock. Thank you for your support and all of the messages. Good luck with everything to each of you xxx

 

[Fleur29]

Oh Mrs W I'm so so so sorry huge hugs to you. I am not surprised you're in shock. Please take care of yourself at this horrible time xxxxxxxx

 

[celine]

Ms W im so sorry my second loss was more of a deal than. Y first, but that first loss knocked the life out of me i hope you sre ok snd will find the support you need. Tw the loss forum on here is amazing x

Can i join you ladies? I agree with the ither bugger group and being ignored,sorry to sound judgey but there is alot of drama in there at times. Im due. Number three July 3rd! My lmp was april (yes you read right) and i fell preggnant in may, lost on my sons birthday fell pregnant that cycle with mmc my body eventually let go Sept 11 and i was rushed to hospital with severe bleeding etc.
Fell pregnant that cycle and here i am!

I have been sneaky and am milking extra scans where i can, next mw appiintment is thurs simply to check hb, then on Monday i have gender scan, the week after another mw appointment and two weeks after the big 20 week scan

 

[kylesmom]

Sorry I haven't been on in awhile.

Mrs. W. I am so very very very sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how you feel but know I am here for you. (Hugs) Very sad news. Prayers to you.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Thank you xx

 

[pinksmarties]

Mrs W I am so very sorry for your loss. My first mc was a mmc found at 11 weeks so totally understand how you must be feeling right now. I found Bnb through the loss forum but I am here too if you need to chat. Sending lot of love and hugs to you all.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Thank you pink. I've been in the loss area and its helped. I need all the support I can get right now so thank you for the offer, I really would appreciate that xxx

 

[pinksmarties]

Hi Celine, I remember you from the other thread.

 

[TwinMommy6]

Oh no I'm so sorry Mrs W
I am heartbroken for you!!!!
You Are In my thoughts and prayers

((Hugs)) xx

 

[celine]

Pinksmarties i recognise ur name and twinmommy too.