just a few questions...

[mcsmyth1]

hi everyone, i was hoping i could get a few answers or advice from you guys,,, everyone on this forum is so supportive and i have gathered so much strength from you all.

i had a MC (blighted ovum) started on 26th May with light bleeding, and passed the sac on the 30th june, my partner and I have decided to try again without waiting for a full cycle...and I thankfully (gosh its strange to say this) got a neg HPT today

I guess i just have a few questions that i can not find the answers to online anywhere...

when you start to MC, do you class that as CD1?

i heard that fertility is increased following a MC, does anyone have first hand experience of this?

If i classed the first day i began to MC as CD1 then today i would now be on CD22... and I have some slight twingy pains low in my abdomen; i know that there is a huge chance that this may be just a result of the MC itself but after i passed the sac i had no pain whatsoever, just today, is there any hope that this may have been ovulation pain or even, dare i say it, implantation, so soon after my little baby grew wings and flew away...

i just long to be pregnant again, nothing will ever replace the little bean that we lost, but am i crazy to have that hope?

to all you lovely ladies

 

[kiki04]

I am on the exact same day as you. My d&c was May 26th. I am counting that day as cd1 and I got a negative hpt, which I posted about being hapy about too just last night, but it was my first test so I dont know how long ago they reached zero. It is definately possible that you are ovulating and ready to begin baby making again

 

[mcsmyth1]

I am on the exact same day as you. My d&c was May 26th. I am counting that day as cd1 and I got a negative hpt, which I posted about being hapy about too just last night, but it was my first test so I dont know how long ago they reached zero. It is definately possible that you are ovulating and ready to begin baby making again

just like you kiki today was the first i had tested aswell in a strange way getting that BFN gave me the closure i think i needed...

are you ttc straight away also? so sorry for your loss kiki

 

[lilrojo]

I dont believe that fertility is any higher after.. I tried for 6 months to get preg after my first loss.. and once i did that too ended in a loss.. so now im back at it..

Im so sorry for you loss.. I counted the first day of my mc as day one.. where the bleeding was heavy..

 

[Ducktales]

i too dont believe a mc makes you more fertile... i also had a blighted ovum and an erpc in feb and nothing yet
good luck and fingers crossed for you
xxx

 

[DaisyBee]

I am sorry for your loss

I dont think there really is a cd1 til your af AFTER the miscarriage. Not everyone ovulates straight after miscarriage. My first miscarriage AF showed up 4 weeks after my bleeding started & I passed tissue (both happened the same day). I didnt take opk's so not sure if I ovulated or when.
2nd miscarriage I got a positive opk 3 weeks & 1 day after I passed tissue (my heavy bleeding started 2 days before I passed tissue). AF showed up 2 weeks after the +opk (we werent ttc then just was curious if my cycle would regulate). So AF was 5 weeks & 1 day after passing tissue and 5 weeks 3 days after start of heavy bleeding. My normal cycle is 28-30 days & my hcg numbers were almost identical & lost my beans at 6 weeks at 6weeks 3days but bleeding started w/ both on the exact same day.

Hopefully you are lucky & are more fertile after miscarriage. Good luck to you!

 

[kiki04]

I am on the exact same day as you. My d&c was May 26th. I am counting that day as cd1 and I got a negative hpt, which I posted about being hapy about too just last night, but it was my first test so I dont know how long ago they reached zero. It is definately possible that you are ovulating and ready to begin baby making again

just like you kiki today was the first i had tested aswell in a strange way getting that BFN gave me the closure i think i needed...

are you ttc straight away also? so sorry for your loss kiki

I have been in the NTNP part but I have a bit of a tricky situation.. my DH had a vasectomy just a few weeks ago right before we lost Hadlee so right now I am holding onto the hope there is still a few guys swimming. We already had the dr apt to get a consult for reversal so it wont be long until it is full on TTC again

 

[mcsmyth1]

thanks for the replies girls, tbh i wasnt even expecting definitive answers, im just clutching at straws

aw kiki im sorry to hear that i really hope the reversal goes as planned and you too can start to make a sticky bean soon!