Just a little vent

[momtoparker]

Hi. I am pregnant, single and a single mom to a four year old. Last night i had to drop off my son to his dad's which is fine, but i happened to look into the door (glass) before i knocked and he is kissing his fiance-how nice!
I do not want my ex back but the fact that i left him for being such a jerk (putting it in nice terms) and he has the nice life and here i am sad and lonely becuase i am pregnant with what could possibly be his child and he still gets the nice cushy happy life. Where is the carma in that - please!! I thought i was doing the right thing by leaving him and that i would be happier becuase i did - WELL I DONT THINK SO, i am more f*'d up then i wish i were and i am far from happy - ok ok maybe i am not miserable but i deserve to be where he is - not him! right ladies!? lol
Anyway i feel better having written those big caps, thanks

 

[babybaillie]

(((((HUGS)))))

I know how u feel. Im single, pregnant with a 4 year old and another on d way for my ex. And like u say his life goes on and mine has ground to a halt. it sucks. better days will be round d corner for us xx

 

[momtoparker]

wow, thats funny! well....not your situation but that we are in the same situation. I hope the best for you too. I know that these times will pass and really the only thing that is keeping me going is believing that i will fall inlove and be so happy.

 

[lou_w34]

I no how you feel, i never ever want my ex back, even if he was the last man on the planet i would refuse! Yet it seems ok for him to be able to ignore his unborn child, yet he moved on with a new gf and her baby! However karma came around and bit him in the arse as she dumped him soon after

Its unfair how our lives seem to stand still, yet they can swan around doing whatever!

 

[purpledahlia]

aw hun, hope your ok x

 

[mummydove]

Just remember why you left him and even if you have times were you feel lonely just remember that you are better off!!

It is easier for him to move on because he hasn't got the full time responsiblilty like you but just think when you do find someone that is happy with you and your little baby that it will be someone extra special and you will be happy and loved up!!

My ex husband left me when Finley was a month old and although i did not want him back the idea of seeing him being happy with someone else would have made me cross because he did not deserve it, luckily i found someone first and i am so happy! and it will happen for you too.

Everything happens for a reason!

Take care

 

[tinkabells]

Hey, just rant away, we all need the release from it all xxx