Just a rant!!

[pandacub]

My ex is supposed to come up on the first weekend of each month to see Jacob. He takes him out for the day, stays in a hotel, then spends a couple of hrs with him on Sunday before he goes home (his gf comes too)
Except he didn't come last month. And he's not coming next month. Apparently, he's going on holiday the first week, has a wedding the second and then has coursework to do and exams to prepare for the rest of the month. He text me this yesterday, didn't apologise, didn't seem remorseful. I am so, so angry to him.
I haven't even messaged him back yet, because I can't seem to convey the gravity of the situation to him. Plus he Always gets really defensive when I pull him up on shit.

I seriously loathe him.

 

[moomin_troll]

Wow! I wouldn't be able to help myself point out how much this must be hurting his child and say if everything else is more important then his child then don't bother seeing him ever again.

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[tallybee]

What a dick it's beyond me how they can do this to the poor kids. Fob was meant to see dd monthly and it fell down about 5 years ago now since he couldn't be arsed. I was raging at the time but it's better he is away than messing her about. He's popped up since making demands but I told him not to bother seeing as he couldn't be bothered when the chances were there. Dd is 9 and happy without him x

 

[MrsT&Ben]

God what an arse! I still can't understand how men can't find the time to see their children!!!!!

 

[tallybee]

God what an arse! I still can't understand how men can't find the time to see their children!!!!!

I know it really shows where there priorities lie doesn't it, so sad

 

[pandacub]

Completely agree ladies, it is sad I'm in bits if I don't see Jacob for a day

 

[Sb86]

My daughter is 3 weeks old today and her dad hasn't seen her yet. Won't be holding my breath that he ever does anytime soon.
His family don't even know she exists.

 

[Jennaxo]

Some people just don't know their priorities, his son should come first no matter what other things he has going on! Not sure what goes through their little heads, but sounds like he needs some sense knocking into him.

 

[daneuse27]

My daughter is 3 weeks old today and her dad hasn't seen her yet. Won't be holding my breath that he ever does anytime soon.
His family don't even know she exists.

Congratulations on your new baby. I'm sorry that he has shown no interest. You will be far better off without his poor attitude and influence. Surround yourself with those who love you and your baby girl.

 

[baileybubs]

I definitely feel that anger Hun. I loathe my ex for the way he behaves towards my kids and how he can't find the time even to see them for just an hour. And it's apparently all my fault because if I would just drive them to see him then it wouldn't be a problem (his words). He hasn't seen them for 8 months now and keeps coming up with lame excuses. I used to be a long angrier about it and for a while I was so upset for my kids and couldn't understand how he couldn't possibly love them as much as I do, and how it couldn't pain him constantly to not see them. But then I realised he's just a selfish tosser who doesn't deserve my beautiful kids in his life, and ultimately he's the one missing out not them. If I were you id tell him that if he cancels again he can go and speak to a lawyer about contact because your son shouldn't have to put up with being a secondary plan if his dad can find the time, he doesn't deserve to just be dropped like a lead balloon when it suits.