Just a vent

[babydue2011]

First of my lil man will be here in about 9 weeks (till due date 12/21/2011). The pain of things between me and my ex are still there but the last month i think i have been stronger then ever. Wrote him a nice lil email responding to him email about his love for a new girlfriend bahaha. A man that can leave a child has no idea what real love is... anyways he messaged me a couple days ago to say "how are things" ... WTH! then i ask if he would like a pic of the 3D scan.. his answer "no i do not" ... really!!

Plus one of his best friends will be having a baby too... Its a boy! mann i hope that hurts to see them everyday knowing he left his own son.

ughhhhhhhh

 

[Laura2919]

How dare he message and ask how things are when he doesnt even care about his child. Just write him an email back and say, dont contact me unless you want contact with your child. If he doesnt exist then neither do I.

Dont let him bring you down, he is a loser and isnt worth the hurt and pain.

 

[jessrabbit]

Stupid dick head. half time I think they dont know what to say so just say something.

I'm moody and hormonal today and sick of finding excuses for them and their stuuuuuuuuuupid behaviour. I'm only a couple of weeks behind you, sooooooooo tired and worried about how I will cope, the last thing either of us need is more of their daft behaviour.


aaaarrrrrrrrrgggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

hugs xx

 

[dustbunny]

I'd tell him to F off and stick his stupid questions. You know what he is missing out on and soon enough he will know, the bitter irony for him being that it is souly his fault for not being involved. Keep strong!

 

[babydue2011]

thank you all. I did write him a email and said to not contact me. if he does i will ignore him. i do believe in karma and believe all of these dead beat no good "lil boys" (they are not men, a real man would not leave a child behind) will get theres one day. if not now, one day. i grew up without a father, reconnected with him March of this year and stopped talking to him April , 21 years i waited to have a relationship with "my dad" (aka sperm donor) and i wish i never reconnected as he is just like my mom described.
Sorry for the vent ladies ughhh ... i am really emotional right now too. trying to keep my head up tho!

hugs to all
Listen to "He didnt have to be" by Brad Praisley... one day we will all get our fairy tale ending. i listen to it everyday!