Just been for scan - baby has died. d&c tomorrow.

[owo]

I'm soo sorry. It must have been so hard being at the scan on your own. I was glad i had DH there with me.

Hope that the D&C goes well and you can try and find closure. i didn't have a D&C as i MC naturally, but i know how hard it is and am here anytime you want to chat.

 

[PixieKitty]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss hun, and I hope this doesn't discourage you in the future, I can't even begin to imagine what that must feel like. If you ever want to talk, i'm here for you, and, as i'm sure is everyone else here.

 

[Logiebear]

So sorry to hear of your loss hun, we are always here for you to talk to xxx

 

[Ema]

So sorry XxxX

 

[liz_uk]

Thank you everyone for your support, I know i`m new but you`ve all been a godsend.

I`ve just come back, and feel ok.. I have a crampy pain, some bleeding and am a little tired but apart from that i`m doing ok..

The procedure itself was done in a very sympathetic way and all the staff were wonderful.

I`ve got some time off work now to get my head around things as I don`t really think i`ve come to terms with whats just happenned, as it was only just discovered that I`d lost my baby yesterday.

Got a whole load of emotional stuff to work through now, including what to do with some of the baby things that i`d bought (which I know I shouldn`t have so early)...

 

[hease105]

Liz -

Having been through this just 2 weeks prior, I hurt for you, me and everyone who has endured this. I go for my checkup today - you will be in my thoughts.

Please feel free to share any feelings you have or will have. I have run the gamut and have had a hard time seeing any positive. My hormones are starting to regulate a bit, and I am finding the emotional pain still extremely present. I wish I could wrap my arms around you and all the amazing women here - to share and gather strength....

You WILL get through this and you are not alone.....

Take care of your self....

Heather

 

[tansey]

So sorry for your loss. I'm glad it went ok and that you have some time off to gain some strength. We're all here for you. xx

 

[bekkig21]

Same thing happened to me, but i never got pains i just turned up for my scan at 14weeks and they told me the baby had been dead for about 6weeks they gave me a few options D&C been one of them or be left for baby to come on own or take a tablet orally and through the vagina to induce the labour so i took that option the hospital were really good and took care of me, i didnt want the D&C because it can cause problems and maybe infertile, you should speak to your doctor and see if he will offer you any more options, i got pregnant 2months after that and my baby is due in 10days so far everything has gone perfect and had no problems hope eevrything goes ok for you xxx

 

[wishes]

 

[ginamarie]

hi there,
im in the same boat this is my 2nd miscarriage in 5 months i had the first natural and i had a d&c on wed. the d&c was better for me cuz the natural is so painful and to wait for it is the worst. i have to get some labs done in 2 weeks so again the waiting game scared to know if somthing is wrong or not so many unawnsered ??? im very sorry for your loss i know it doesn't make it easier but lets hope we get our babies soon. are you scared to try again??? if you need to vent talk im here. Baby dust to all

 

[coccyx]

know this is an awful time for you and your oh. Have had numerous miscs and know physically and emotionally you need time to heal. We are all here to help you through, so please do not feel alone.

 

[Blob]

I'm really sorry hun

 

[neca717]

Wow hon i'm sorry for your loss stay strong

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

hey hunni i no how u feel it was 6 weeks ago i lost my 4th pregnancy.. im having problems carrying a baby so im under investigation. all of my babys have gone to heaven... its very very hard iv done 3 natural m/c and 1 assisted m/c all hurt just as much as the other.
take some time for yourself and family.. and try again when you feel ready.
xxx

 

[leeanne]

I am so sorry for your loss honey!

 

[superp123]

Just stopping in to wish you well. I wanted to let you know that I've been thinking of you. Here if you need to talk.
P

 

[Carley]

If I can do anything babe, I'm here!

 

[akamummy]

Same here darl. Im so sorry for your loss. Hang in there and be brave darl!

 

[jacky24]

Im so sorry for your loss hun

 

[buffycat]

i am so sorry...lots of hugs for you....