Just can't cope anymore

[Gemmamumof2]

it's been almost 4 years of trying for another.
Finally got doctors to listen to me a few months ago
so took a break from here to have a break and deal with that.
well after test after test for both me and hubby
NOTHING.
They can't find NO reason why we havn't had a child together.
I know i should be greatful and to most of you i seem a horrid person
but to me seems worse now as IF there was a reason i could be dealing with that rigtht now
and get help.
but now I'm in limbo

 

[Apple Blossom]

Hi, sorry you are feeling low , we are unexplained and there is no reason why we shouldnt be pregnant, but it sure doesnt help and you just dont know what to do to help. I was due to go and have further tests done on tubes etc but we cancelled as there isnt much point and we going straight for IVF, after 4yrs of not trying seriously and then 2yrs of really trying we have had enough and need to be able to move on in life and IVF is the only way we can do that. I really hope that you find it easier soon and that you dont give up.

 

[LizMcD]

Sending hugs xx

I don't think you're a bad person for wanting another child. It must still be hard for you even if you're on no.2!

I have been ttc no. 1 for just over a year now, waiting for IUI, lots of unanswered questions about both myself and DH which is v v v frustrating. I have stopped temping, ov tests, preg tests, everything, it was driving me bad. I'm leaving it to chance now and if that doesn't work then Im hoping IUI will bless us with our baby.

sending baby dust