Just curious...

Discussion in 'General Chatter' started by AppleBlossom, Apr 26, 2009.

  1. AppleBlossom

    AppleBlossom Guest

    I was thinking last night (dunno why) and I just wanted to see where you ladies stand on this.

    Do you believe that you make your own fate based on consequences of your actions etc or do you believe that your fate is already chosen and whatever you do in your life won't change the path that you are chosen to take?

    Quite philosophical for a sunday afternoon lol
     
  2. Blah11

    Blah11 ☼ Mummy to Amelie ☼

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    I believe that the choices you make determine your life. Reminds me of the film sliding doors.
     
  3. polo_princess

    polo_princess ♥ Brookes Mummy ♥

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    I believe to some extent that our choice affect our future path ... like fate has laid out the map, you just choose which route to go down
     
  4. pinkish_angel

    pinkish_angel Well-Known Member

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    I totally believe that our actions are already set out for us and we do everything for a reason. We make a lot of bad choices in our life but without those bad choices we wouldnt have certain things that we are obviously meant to have. Ok for instance, my daughters dad. My gosh do I wish I never set eyes on him but I believe I was meant to. I had no 'choice' in that.. and for my decisions I have amelia to thank for that. The decisions we make are gonna happen either way.. its set in stone by 'him upstairs'. Things so happen for a reason. We can not change our destiny. It is fate! XX
     
  5. Mynxie

    Mynxie Well-Known Member

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    I believe that there are choices to make that determin your path, but equally there are some things that you have absolutely no control over.
     
  6. Tasha

    Tasha 4kids+2angels+16mc
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    I think that it is already chosen, there are certain things that have happened in my life that are certainly not a consequence of anything I have done, and I could not of made any other choices or decisions to prevent it from happening.
     
  7. nikky0907

    nikky0907 Well-Known Member

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    Both :)
    I belive in fate. I believe that it hands you a set of cards but in the end it's how you deal with that and your choices that determine your life and happiness. :)
     
  8. Kimboowee

    Kimboowee Complete

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    Totally agree
     
  9. AnnaBanana9

    AnnaBanana9 Mummy

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    Both. I believe that life deals you a hand to play, but how you play that hand is up to you.
    x
     
  10. cybermum

    cybermum MUM TO 2 BOYS.

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    I believe we hold our own fate to a great degree in our hands.
    Its up to us how we act on it.
     
  11. Pops

    Pops Proud Mum & Wifey

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    I feel exactly the same as Anna xxx
     
  12. CareBear

    CareBear Is considering whats next

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    Both. I believe some things are meant to be and some can be influenced by your choices
     
  13. tasha41

    tasha41 Mum & Dad + 1

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    A little bit of both :)
     
  14. princess_bump

    princess_bump Happy Wife & Mumma!

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    i suppose i believe we make our own fate, the decision we choose and paths we take, for us, are down to the person and of course others and their surroundings, iynwim! :)
     
  15. Mervs Mum

    Mervs Mum Doula & Mum of 3!

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    I believe in the law of attraction - you get back what you put out and you are in control of your own destiny. :)
     
  16. Elli21

    Elli21 Well-Known Member

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    Exsactly what i was thinking
     
  17. Eoz

    Eoz Mummy of 5! Eeek!

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    You are dealt a card in life it has it's ups and downs but it's how you deal with it.I however got dealt a shite card and I really am struggling to change it's course.It is possible but blooming hard. I feel like mine life more relates to a voodo doll !!
     

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