just don't know what to do:(

[annapower18]

22 weeks pregnant and for the last few days ive been feeling so low, shaking being sick and unable to eat. Ive had thoughts that have just come out of nowhere. I love my partner and he's so supportive but my mind is having recurring thoughts of leaving him? And do I really love him? Im normally overjoyed at his return from work but tthese days its just a nervous anxious feeling I feel so guilty about these thoughts Its horrible and so hard to explain to people. In my heart I love him so much I just don't understand these horrible thoughts? Anybody else had a similar experience?

Thanks x

 

[RcdM]

All of these feelings are normal! There are many women whose hormones just make them despise their DH while pregnant even if he hasn't done anything wrong. It will all pass soon! The best thing you can do is just try to be patient with yourself and if you feel like you need space, explain to your DH that you don't quite understand your hormones but not to take it personally. But everything will be ok! It's normal and these hormones make us crazy! So don't make any permanent decisions while you're feeling this way. Good luck try to stay positive!

 

[laurabe]

a few weeks back i was certain i was leaving OH. everything he did annoyed me and i thought id had enough. like the previous poster said these feelings do pass, but its not nice but now i feel so happy with everything , including OH.

 

[annapower18]

Thankyou its always nice to have some reassurance xx

 

[ParisJeTadore]

I haven't experienced this myself but have read about it on here many times so I would say it's totally normal during pregnancy. As others have stated, your hormones are all over the place and this too shall pass.

Whenever something is really bothering me instead of running from it or feeling guilty I try my very best to accept and embrace those feelings even if they're scary. So accept that the feelings you have about your OH at the moment and know that on an intellectual level you are aware that you still love him to pieces and don't want to be without him!

 

[Spiffynoodles]

If it makes you feel better, I had this same problem in my first pregnancy, but the second time around, and this time, I'm the opposite! I can't wait for my DH to get home, and get really bent out of shape if he has to work longer hours or we don't get time together on Saturday. So if you're planning on having more kids, you may not have this problem next time.