Just feeling Scared

[Sarah88]

I don't know why but I keep thinking that i've lost my baby. I have no reason to be worried or scared, but I can't shake it. I've booked for an ultrasound next week so I can get a definate due-date, and also some reassurance I guess. I can't wait til im further along so I can feel that the baby is still alive.

Does anyone else feel like this? Just stupidly scared for no reason?

 

[AquaDementia]

It is natural to feel scared since you really have no visual proof of pregnancy until your first ultrasound.
However, after you see the heartbeat (WHICH YOU WILL SEE!!) all your fears will go away.

 

[Sarah88]

I had an ultrasound at 8wks as I thought I had a m/c, and it was the most amazing moment of my life. I guess coz I don't have anything to see week to week as proof that my baby is still growing

 

[AquaDementia]

My first U/S was at 12 weeks, so up until then I had to trust the pregnancy tests! It sure was scary going to the first ultrasound.

 

[Sarah88]

Yeah I bet. I'll be kind of scared going to mine.

 

[AquaDementia]

Good luck with it, I am sure I will see your good news next week.

 

[Mervs Mum]

I think its totally normal esp if you dont feel pregnant.

The scan will make you feel loads better.
x

 

[baby.girl]

I think its totally normal esp if you dont feel pregnant.

The scan will make you feel loads better.
x

I feel pregnant, but i still have the worries, im sure we all do...

I can't wait until i start showing and being able to feel the baby move, it'll give me reassurance that he/she is growing just fine...

 

[Vickie]

I am always scared (even now) before a doctors appointment, wondering well what if they don't find anything or something has happened. It's completely normal. I'm sure everything is fine though

 

[Ann-Marie]

aw sweets.... you'd be strange if you weren't worried.... it's Mums nature... and it doesn't get any easier, even after babe is born.
I look forward to hearing about your scan, seeing and hearing your baby is amazing

 

[leeanne]

There is a period of time where many woman just don't feel pregnant save for a few symptoms. It is normal, hun.

Best wishes on your scan next week! I am sure all will be fine

 

[PitBullMommy]

My first scan was at 8 weeks and didn't have another until 20. I was SO worried that we bought a doppler so we could hear her heartbeating everynight before we went to bed. It's normal to worry, but I'm sure your LO is just fine.

 

[nikky0907]

I know that you feel scared because you love that little thing in you so much already and you can't see it,but you need to relax...the stress you're feeling isn't helping...I'm sure that everything is fine and you'll be looking at your scan photos before you know it!xxx

 

[pocahontas35]

This is my 6th pg, and I still worry. I know I will be fine if things don't work out w/this pg, but I am having a really hard time being optomistic. It only gets easier when you feel or see baby. You are not alone.

 

[Sarah88]

I'm glad to know im not the only one who feels this way. Thanks for all your support ladies.

 

[cuddles314]

I definitely understand how ur feeling hun. My 1st ultrasound is next week, and until i see my little dot on the screen I can't quite believe that I really am pregnant. Got no clear idea of my dates until then either, so I'm hoping once I have a definite date to look forward to it will make me feel a bit better. Wishing you the very best of luck, keep us updated.
xx

 

[vickilouise]

i know the feeling i think im going to be like this all the way though. i keep having scares. i think a scan a day would set my mind at ease.

 

[baby.girl]

i know the feeling i think im going to be like this all the way though. i keep having scares. i think a scan a day would set my mind at ease.

that would be absolutely wonderful .....

 

[Dizzy]

I don't know why but I keep thinking that i've lost my baby. I have no reason to be worried or scared, but I can't shake it. I've booked for an ultrasound next week so I can get a definate due-date, and also some reassurance I guess. I can't wait til im further along so I can feel that the baby is still alive.

Does anyone else feel like this? Just stupidly scared for no reason?

That's exactly how i feel! I fell pregnant while on the pill so i haven't had a period since 2006!
I've had 5 HPT and a pelvic exam and blood test at docs - i'm defo pregnant but i can't help worrying that it's not their or i've lost it -

every time i pee i'm paranoid in case i see blood. It's horrible -
my scan isn't until 2nd april - i think i'll have gone mad by then.

Doesn't help my OH is over the moon but so calm! GRRR! men should get hormonal too!