just found out today, missed miscarriage

[MissyMojo]

heya sweetie so very sorry for your loss, i was told on 21st May that my baby hadnt developed past 6 weeks, i opted for natural options, within a few hours i starrted spotting and a full flow came 2-3 days later, on sunday 24th and taperd off to spotting by sat 30th, being further along i dont know what your best option would be, i found a few days to be very painful the mon tues n wed of full flow,

im sending you love hugs and strength for this hard time

many wishes for a healthy future for u xxxx

 

[Shelby2007]

Im sorry sweetie..

I had a mmc at 9 weeks with identical twins.. i had some bleeding around wk 5 and this is when the weak twin passed.. and my strong twin had passed either the day before or the day before that..

We are here for you..

 

[todteach]

Sending you . I'm so sorry hun. xox

I have had two miscarriages in the last year. With my first, my baby had stopped developping two weeks before I ended up in emergency with bleeding, I was then booked in for a d&c the next day. I ended up having to have to go in again eleven days later, because of an infection (due to retained products) for another surgery.

I had my second miscarriage in February, I saw my baby and heard the heartbeat in January, only to be told Feb 9th that he or she had stopped developing soon after my ultrasound. I miscarried naturally on February 16th.

Both experiences were heartwrenching, and I wouldn't wish any of it on my worst enemy. I found with my second miscarriage, I was better prepared for the heartache afterward. I believe that with our first loss, I suffered from depression months later. I couldn't understand why this would happen to us.

If you need any support, please please please let someone know. I found the girls on this forum to be a godsend to me, while I was working out a lot of frustration after my losses. They are wonderful. My husband and I also attend a group therapy session monthly with other couples who have experienced miscarriages, the face to face support seems to really help us out too.

 

[littledemonme]

I am so very soory for your sad loss. I wish you all the strength you need to get through this.
We're all here for you, just let us know when and how we can help.

 

[diane60f]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I would never even think of wishing this on my worst of all enemies. I went through a MMC back on march 6th. It was a normal scan..i had brown spotting..*which everyone told me was normal b/c i wasn't in any kind of pain what so ever...*I remember knowing that something wasn't right and i told my husband that i was afraid of not seeing our angels heartbeat on this scan..the first hb scan at 6 weeks showed a bp of 130. I remember laying there and the doctor telling me there was no heartbeat. I thought I was in a movie. I felt the world collapsing around me. This was the third baby I lost...8wks, 10wks and 11 weeks..I opted for a DandC cause my doc said i'm at the point where they need to do all the tests they can to figure out whats wrong with me. I felt so hopeless and worthless.
After a month of waiting and testing, i have been diagnosed with MTHFR with a double mutation of my C and A gene. My baby was a healthy baby girl and sadly, she could have been saved if i had known i had this gene mutation. All i needed to do was take a baby aspirin and extra folic acid and b12 and b6 there must have been a tinnnny blood clot in her cord..I share my story to every mom who has angel babies. because it is more common than us woman realize and unfortunately doctors dont test b/c its expensive, they wait till youve lost at least 3 babies. I dont want anyone to have to suffer multiple times for a prescription of extra folic acid, b vitamins and an aspirin...so i'm here telling anyone who will listen.

I dont know you ladies..but my heart goes out to each and every one of yu...and my prayers are with you and your angels.

Love,
Diane