Just found out!!

[Kitty16]

Hi
Im Catie and im 16.
I just found out I am pregnant today.
I am 2 months along since I waited forever to even get the courage
to buy a test(i bought 3 lol).
This is really hard for me because the father is across the world. We have been together a year and he is worried yet excited and im scared outta my mind!
I know for a fact that I want to keep him/her
there is NO WAY I can go through
with abortion or adoption!!
Im not sure though if I should wait and tell my mum when I know
I can or if I should just blurt it out now.
ahhh god im so scared!
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[Vickie]

Welcome to the forum. In my opinion it's best to go ahead and tell your mother, she may be shocked at first but hopefully she'll come around quickly, and you can use her support and experience. Good luck

 

[leeanne]

I definitely agree with Vickie. Tell her now and get it over with. Otherwise, you will be stressed about it.

Good luck, hon. I hope that everything turns out well for you!

 

[Serene123]

I'm 18. I told my mum straight away. I made her promise not to get mad first though.

 

[Sweetie]

I"m going to jump on board with everyone else. Probably best to tell your mom now and let her help support you while you get your head wrapped around it all.

 

[Zanny]

Long distance relationships are hard, & they're even harder with kids involved.. but believe me, it can be done. Whilst pregnant with my first, I only saw the father (my fiance) about 4 times, & then luckily he made it to the birth. He moved here to be with me when our daughter turned 1, & now we're expecting our 2nd baby.

Tell your mum sooner, rather than later. I know that's easier said than done, but you need to do it. She might get mad, & upset, but I bet she'll come around soon enough. You need the support of your family right now.

Good luck hun.

 

[armychicmkm]

I can completely understand you not wanting to tell your mother but pregnancy is not exactly something you can hide and telling her before she figures it out for herself will probably spare a lot of hurt and angry feelings.

 

[Suz]

I would tell your mom... It will take some of your fears away

 

[Sarah_16x]

First of all congrats .....I dident tell my mum and dad staright away and i wished i did now looking back. I was scared of telling them incase they went mad but in the end i told meh dad first a couple of weeks after i found out then my mum a couple of weeks after i told me dad they were fine about it xxx

 

[mBLACK]

Congratulations on your BFP! + Welcome to BnB
I'm 15 years old, and I was in your situation about 4 1/2 months ago. Trust me dear, if you don't blurt it out you probably will never get around to telling her. There are lots of different ways that you can tell her, depending on how she will react. If he first initial reaction is probably going to be extreme anger, I'd write a letter or send an e-mail to give her time to cool off before you discuss this with her. I believe it shows her more respect if you tell it to her face, though, and remember; she probably will get angry or upset, but eventually she will grow to love that little one just as you do and will. Even though it's scary at first, trust me it gets easier, and you are going to love this little one with your heart and soul. If you have any questions don't hesitate to ask, pm me at anytime I'm always around.

 

[vicky9207]

hey

welcome to bnb! also congrats on your pregnancy n gud luck

i had my baby boy 2 months ago n my advise is 2 tell ur mum as soon as possible . im 15 n have a lovely baby boy. if u ever want 2 talk 2 me just pm me or add me on msn on (edit by admin - please use the PM feature to give out email addresses)

 

[leeanne]

Hey vicky, appreciate you trying to help the poster but I think it not wise to post your email address in your post.

 

[vicky9207]

Hey vicky, appreciate you trying to help the poster but I think it not wise to post your email address in your post.

okies sorry i didnt know u werent allowed 2

 

[Rayven]

I'm on board with everyone else. I think you're probably going to need lots of support as this is a really emotional time for you, so even if your Mum isn't happy to start off with i'm sure she'll support you once the news sinks in & then you'll have someone to lean on. *BIG HUGS*

 

[leeanne]

okies sorry i didnt know u werent allowed 2

It's more for your safety hon!

 

[Blob]

Ha ha i asked my mum whether she was in a good mood first and if she was happy ha ha pretty sure she knew there was something up then!!

 

[Linzi]

You need support through something like this, so definately tell your mum.

Good luck with everything hun

xxx

 

[AppleBlossom]

Congratulations hun! And well done for deciding to keep the baby, I know its a hard decision as I'm only 18 myself. You should definately tell your mum. I was petrified of telling my parents at first and when I did, yes it was awful at the time but they managed to come round to the idea and are as excited as me to greet my LO. Hope everything works out for you =]
x

 

[Jodie__x]

hiya:wave: congradulations 2 start with !!

I managed to blurt it out to my mum on thursday , ive never her seen her so angry and she just spent the whole time telling me how dissapointed in me
But 3 days later and shes fine about it .. shes brought baby clothes and everything


Shes probley going to be mad and upset at first but she'll come around ...


promise:thumpup:

 

[Kitty16]

First off...I told my mum, thats why its been awhile since i have been on here...kinda crazy. She wants me to get an abortion because she doesnt want the embarassment. I refuse to do that to my baby...those were my exact words. It just made everything worse She has threatend to kick me out. I told my aunt and she said she would send me back to America. I have talked to my boyfriend about all this and its fine for me to stay with him. I just dont know whats going to happen really because my mum is so...well she changes her mind. Which could be good or could be bad. All I know is there is NO WAY i would abort this child or give him/her away! But thank you to everyone who replyed to this...thank you really.