Just need to vent and i know you guys are good listeners<3

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So this has been whats been going on with me.. when me and marcus(my boyfriend) told my mom and his mom i was pregnant i was 3 months about and my mom wasnt thrilled but she loves me and wasnt upset his mom said "well its not marcus" and he said yes it is shes horrible she refused to let me see him unless i got an A which i refused and so when me and him were talking on the phone ive been trying to get him to stand up to his mother and he hasnt until real recently which made me excited i finally thought things were looking up for this little family weve created but then i realized hes not ready to be a dad he knows nothing and that turned into an arguement and things have been really making me upset lately. my teachers have been a nightmare, i cant stop thinking that my daughter is never gonna have a grandpa :( marcus' dad doesnt love him, his step dad doesnt care about him and his mom doesnt love him but i refused to let my daughter be anywhere near his mom and step dad because they wanted me to get an A and my father was murdered about 2 years ago and that is why my daughters name is Sadie Mae my dad used to sing my the song Sadie when i was young all the time before he passed and it just makes me so emotional to think he'll never meet her :( i havent seen marcus sing november i hope he works this out and ill be able to see him soon we already worked it out for him to be at the delivery but i want him to be their for her all the time its just i dont want to do all the pregnancy stuff that couples do together alone its just feels like everything is crashing and burning around and the only think that makes me happy is to know that she's their and she mine and no one can take that away from me and the sad fact of all this is , is that its not even the half of it the months i spent being pregnant have been the happiest of my life but these problems havent been getting to me till now im just so emotional and its so hard to work through when all you want to do is cry all the time .
 
Sorry hun that your goin thru all this. He will probably be ready when time comes, men are different from us. Anyways you're doin good try n keep your head up. Trust me I know shit gets hard sometimes especially when you dont have him there how it should be, but in the hardest times your baby girl will help you pull thru it. I never even knew how strong I am until I had no choice but to be... Every now and then ill break down n cry for whatever reason, but I always pull it together! You'll be alright tho n its good that you got your moms support too!
 
yeah i know he will be it just worrys me. i was never a big worrier until i got pregnant, now i worry about everything! yeah if it wasnt for her and bnb i dont know how i would make it through this. everyone keeps telling me it will all work out it the end it will all be fine and i believe them but my emotions still just keep tweaking.
 
:hugs: Sounds like you have been going through a lot on your own, as the previous poster said some men/boys don't really step up until they meet their LOs.
As for all the people in your life who are acting awfully, they might change when your LO is here and may well want to be there for her, keep your spirits up and try not to stress about any of this and focus on your LO :flower:
 
Thanks i try not to its hard but my LO is the only thing that keeps my mind off on the negatives:)
 
:hugs: that's a lot to take on, on top of being pregnant. If at all possible, try and concentrate on you and your baby and ignore FOB for time being. If he's ready to be a dad, then he will approach you. For now, I think it's too much stress to worry about, for you and baby. Hope things get better for you!
 
Well he said he's been reading baby books so im less stressed and as well as everyone else your right all i need is Lo
 
If the guy can't step up and put you and your little one first he is not worth your time!

He is probably quite scared and has a lot of pressure from him but that does not give him any excuse on why he should not be there for every moment of your daughter life and not just when his mommy says it is okay!

I hope he grows up soon, but in the mean time i am sure the ladies on here will help support in all ways possible :)
 

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