Ju_bubbs
Proud single Mummy of 5!
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Hiya ladies... I dont really know that I belong in here, or if I'll be accepted. I've not been ttc long at all, and have no KNOWN fertillity problems.. but that becuase I cant get tests on the nhs and cant afford to do it privately.
I just thought I'd come in here coz I dont really feel that I fit in in the ttc section, i know I'm currently a long way off what most of you in here have been through, I mean.. I Ov fairly regularly, have a 'normal' LP even had 3 healthy children without ttc! but since we started ttc last August when I stopped bcp due to being pregnant, only to MC a week or so later. Since then I've had early MC's/chemical pregnancies every cycle but 1. I'm pregnant again now, and for the first time
hasn't actually shown up (4 days late), but I know its just a matter of time, coz my tests have been back to negative again for 3 days now.
Being in ttc is starting to do my head in coz altho I've only been there 5/6 months I've been through several cycle buddy groups and just been left behind as the rest move onto 1st tri! I'm fed up seeing girls come into tcc and then go straight out the other door into 1st tri and seeing everyone get excited over their
when all my s mean for me are more heartache! Don't get me wrong, I'm pleased for all these people, its just getting a bit much for me. Not to mention the amount of silly questions some ppl ask, I know I was a newbie at ttc once, not long ago... but things like I think my period might possibly have been due 3 days ago maybe and my boobs hurt, do you think i'm pregnant? are really annoying me! I know that sounds horrible but I've just had enough. 
I feel I'd be better off somewhere that I can settle for the long term.. if you'll have me!
Sorry if coming over after such a short time offends anyone, believe me, I dont by any means think I'm classed as ltttc, I'm just preparing to still be here years from now, probably still with an undiagnosed problem! I'm hoping the ladies in this section might understand what I'm going through better.
If anyone thinks I'mout of order coming here, please say..
I just thought I'd come in here coz I dont really feel that I fit in in the ttc section, i know I'm currently a long way off what most of you in here have been through, I mean.. I Ov fairly regularly, have a 'normal' LP even had 3 healthy children without ttc! but since we started ttc last August when I stopped bcp due to being pregnant, only to MC a week or so later. Since then I've had early MC's/chemical pregnancies every cycle but 1. I'm pregnant again now, and for the first time
hasn't actually shown up (4 days late), but I know its just a matter of time, coz my tests have been back to negative again for 3 days now.Being in ttc is starting to do my head in coz altho I've only been there 5/6 months I've been through several cycle buddy groups and just been left behind as the rest move onto 1st tri! I'm fed up seeing girls come into tcc and then go straight out the other door into 1st tri and seeing everyone get excited over their
when all my s mean for me are more heartache! Don't get me wrong, I'm pleased for all these people, its just getting a bit much for me. Not to mention the amount of silly questions some ppl ask, I know I was a newbie at ttc once, not long ago... but things like I think my period might possibly have been due 3 days ago maybe and my boobs hurt, do you think i'm pregnant? are really annoying me! I know that sounds horrible but I've just had enough. I feel I'd be better off somewhere that I can settle for the long term.. if you'll have me!Sorry if coming over after such a short time offends anyone, believe me, I dont by any means think I'm classed as ltttc, I'm just preparing to still be here years from now, probably still with an undiagnosed problem! I'm hoping the ladies in this section might understand what I'm going through better.
If anyone thinks I'mout of order coming here, please say..
