Springflower
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The short story is that my husband had an affair, I tried to make it work but he is no longer in love with me so I'm ready for divorce.
I don't know where to start?! I think if I want his infidelity to be the reason then I have 6 months from when he told me, end of may.
He is apparently going to support us but I have no idea what that means? I gave up my career to care for our children, so I have no job. We also recently (feb) bought a house, so will lose money if I sell the house as we need 2 yrs with the mortgage. But we have moved away from friends and family, I have started to make some friends but it's not the same as mates from years ago. I keep reading about how important support systems are and I have none. Even my soon to be x husband works miles away.
Everything is such a mess and I'm so scared. I have no idea where to begin. Please could anyone offer some advice as I'm lost and I know I need to start sorting things.
I don't know where to start?! I think if I want his infidelity to be the reason then I have 6 months from when he told me, end of may.
He is apparently going to support us but I have no idea what that means? I gave up my career to care for our children, so I have no job. We also recently (feb) bought a house, so will lose money if I sell the house as we need 2 yrs with the mortgage. But we have moved away from friends and family, I have started to make some friends but it's not the same as mates from years ago. I keep reading about how important support systems are and I have none. Even my soon to be x husband works miles away.
Everything is such a mess and I'm so scared. I have no idea where to begin. Please could anyone offer some advice as I'm lost and I know I need to start sorting things.