Just thought id pop in...

[NewToThis_x]

Hey ladies..
Well i guess im joining you all..as me and the oh split today..OR rather i should say HE decided that it was over today..Won't go into detail but the outline of the reasons i were given were.."its all about the pregnancy now", "its just not working" and when asked why's it not workiing "its just not"

Can't believe iv gone from Me and OH being fine..2 weeks ago
Finding out im 7 weeks..Last week
OH dumping me...Today
Me=Preggers and single Lol
Anyways just thought id say helllooo..(ended up getting side tracked by my rant though)
x

 

[AppleBlossom]

Hey hun, sorry to hear about your split

Sounds like you're better off without him anyway.

It's hard being a single mummy but you just cope because you have to for your LO. You'll be fine and we're always hee if you need help or a rant!! x

 

[edinsam]

aw hun the same thing happened to me a month ago its a killer. Our relationship was amazing and then he left after 2 years and went back to his ex

Its not going to be an easy month for you, I have gone to hell and back but you will get through it. Cry as much as you need to, try not block it out as that makes it worse, Im here if you ever need to chat as I have gone through everything you will in the next month or so

Does he want to have any involvement in the baby at all?

 

[NewToThis_x]

Thanks ladies..Im not sure..Its seems not but i have a feeling he will do when he/shes here..He doesnt seem to know what he wants concerning me or anything else atm! He keeps saying he wants to go back to South africa!..Were he was living 5 years ago with his parents..but hes always said that so i dont know if he'll act. go..who knows..

EDIT: Any time i bring up the pregnancy he plays dumb and changes the subject.

 

[xarlenex]

Sorry to hear that

It sounds like hes possibl just a little shocked and freaked and guys really dont know how to handle emotions all that well. I'm not, in anyway, defending him after leaving you so fast, I just think maybe after a while he could possibly come around?

And if not, then stuff him. You don't need him, your baby will give you enough motivation to get stuff done on your own

xx

 

[precious-gift]

hi went through same thing a month ago, but mine had an affair, but came totally out of the blue and seemed totally out of character, had been planning out future couple of days before, he even spoke about when we would have next baby!!

i feel like ive been through every emotion possible, some days im fine and next i feel like im back to square one, but i know that in time i will feel better and my baby keeps me going, just remember that your baby is most important and you can do it on your own, and you will be a great mother with or without him, time is a healer, although that is sometimes hard to believe, you will get there.

 

[shaunanicole]

I am so sorry that this happened to you. Of course it's about the pregnancy now, you have to take care and make sure the baby is doing okay in your tum, he can't expect for you to "forget" about the baby until it's actually born. Anyways though, I hope your feeling better sweety. Don't worry, you WILL make it through.

 

[xXDonnaXx]

Aslong as you've got family and friends to support you, you will be fine. You don't need him. He's the one losing out. x