young-mummy
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So i was really stupid and went to see FOB.. whos in the army and i stayed down there for 5 days.. we was getting on ok and was talking about our baby being born ect. was really nice as its the first time hes seen my bump and i loved him being able to feel our child kick,, no matter how much we do not get on i really wanted to try before my baby was born...
i went down to camp on the agrement that i would not go throu his phone and he would not go throu mine.. as thats where all the problems usualy come from (because my friends dont like him and when he reads my messages he doesnt like me telling people whats gone on, and when ive seen his phone there is always dirty talk to other girls) so anyway i was down there and he turned his mob off for the night as did i, when we both switched our phones on in the am he had 40 messages and i had 1 but i didnt have a nosey as were not together and i cant eexactly have a go at him for it, but later on he went thru my mobile and found a text off a male friend who said night night babe to me so i said it back, he is honestly just a friend, so FOB began shouting and screeming at me so i packed my things to get the train home as do not need that at 30 weeks pregnant, as i got my things together i asked him for my phone... but the idiot had hid my phone and told me i wasnt aloud to go home, i was in tears and just wanted to get out but oviously really needed my phone for a 5 hour journey home. so in the end i had to stay because it got too late,but i finally got my phone back - we sat down and talked and i forgave him.. we also spoke about money, he had agreed to give me 300 toward baby thing next month as i have never had a penny off him..
so i came home the next day for him to send me a text that wasnt ment for me which i wernt happy about and told him i wanted space and not to be texting all the time but ill tell him about the baby... the reply i got back was " fuck you, why dont you just take a one off payment off me and you and this kid fuck off out of my life for good!" i have took it calmly and told him i would rather do this through the csa now and sort out contact when the babys born.
since then im gettin mind messing messages such as.. social services might not think you could cope under the stress so becarfull what you do"
im ignoring the texts now and not had any today thank god!
but i always feel sorry for him and i dont know why. sometimes i think hes just scared but hes got a kid already so he nows what to expect and then i think its just because me and him dont get on but then hell text me sayin i love you..
i just want abit of reasurrance that im doing the right thing by taking him to the csa when the babys here really?
sorry if this doesnt make sence just wanted to get it all out xxxx
i went down to camp on the agrement that i would not go throu his phone and he would not go throu mine.. as thats where all the problems usualy come from (because my friends dont like him and when he reads my messages he doesnt like me telling people whats gone on, and when ive seen his phone there is always dirty talk to other girls) so anyway i was down there and he turned his mob off for the night as did i, when we both switched our phones on in the am he had 40 messages and i had 1 but i didnt have a nosey as were not together and i cant eexactly have a go at him for it, but later on he went thru my mobile and found a text off a male friend who said night night babe to me so i said it back, he is honestly just a friend, so FOB began shouting and screeming at me so i packed my things to get the train home as do not need that at 30 weeks pregnant, as i got my things together i asked him for my phone... but the idiot had hid my phone and told me i wasnt aloud to go home, i was in tears and just wanted to get out but oviously really needed my phone for a 5 hour journey home. so in the end i had to stay because it got too late,but i finally got my phone back - we sat down and talked and i forgave him.. we also spoke about money, he had agreed to give me 300 toward baby thing next month as i have never had a penny off him..
so i came home the next day for him to send me a text that wasnt ment for me which i wernt happy about and told him i wanted space and not to be texting all the time but ill tell him about the baby... the reply i got back was " fuck you, why dont you just take a one off payment off me and you and this kid fuck off out of my life for good!" i have took it calmly and told him i would rather do this through the csa now and sort out contact when the babys born.
since then im gettin mind messing messages such as.. social services might not think you could cope under the stress so becarfull what you do"
im ignoring the texts now and not had any today thank god!
but i always feel sorry for him and i dont know why. sometimes i think hes just scared but hes got a kid already so he nows what to expect and then i think its just because me and him dont get on but then hell text me sayin i love you..
i just want abit of reasurrance that im doing the right thing by taking him to the csa when the babys here really?
sorry if this doesnt make sence just wanted to get it all out xxxx
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