just wanted to introduce myself

[sineady]

Hiii im sinead & 19 and a single mamma just thought it would be nice to introduce myself in the single parents because everyone needs to talk sometimes dont they heres a lil explaination of why im here .....


well while i was with the FOB he was very abusive towards me & cheating all the time so i finally plucked up the courage to leave him & go back to my mums.....when i went into labour with lewis he did show up but even found the time to have a go at me then saying "calm down on that gas & air" prick!!! & then hide in the toilets for the rest! i had to stay in hospital for 4 days because i had to have an emergency c-section! he came for 2 hours to see lewis in them four days! when i got home him coming to see lewis didnt improve he made excuses like its too cold or im tired!!!!!!! if i was in his situation i would walk till my feet bleed to see my son! anyways he came one day & started being voilent towards me infront of lewis luckerly my dad was there to stop it & kick him out!!!!! from then on all i got was abuse from him in texts & facebook so i just ignored him! 4 weeks ago i was in town with my friends shopping when i bumped into him...he tryed taking lewis off me screaming in the middle of town that i was a bad mum & that i hurt lewis i was sooooooo upset! luckerly my dad came to my rescue again (dont know what i would do without him) & from that day i am too scared to take lewis out on my own i have gone to a solicitor & they are taking it to court now so that he wont be able to take him from me! they have also said that there going to go for supervised access if he wants to see him because of all the things he has done to me which i dont really want to mention. the thing that makes me laugh though is since that happend in town he hasnt made no attempt to see lewis! ohh & hes going round telling people loads of bull which makes me upset too! hes hasnt bought a single thing for him either! grrrrrr stupid BOY

well thats me lol sorry if it didnt make sense just wanted to share with you why im a single mum & would love to chat to women in the same situation


sinead xoxo

 

[sweetlullaby]

Omg that would really upset me if FOB tried to take my LO off me in town or something!

But Stay strong and :wave: Hello btw lol xx

 

[Aidedhoney]

Hello hun,

BIg hugs sounds like you are having a rough time.
Hope things get better xx

 

[littlekitten8]

Hi hun. God that sounds awful. My FOB slammed me into a wall hence me leaving. So I know how hard it is to leave an abusive relationship. I can't believe he tried to take him away! What an idiot! Glad things are going to court. And if he ever tried it again then don't be afraid to scream blue murder, cos someone will come to your rescue. And call the police! Just wanted to give you massive hugs, and if you ever need to chat then PM me xx

 

[expecting09]

Hey chick, he sounds like a proper prick, shouting and screaming in the middle of town, who does he think he is?!

 

[jamielou]

Hey hun Always here for a pm if you ever need to talk xx

 

[purpledahlia]

Sounds like an Arse. Glad you have some family for support and have gone to a solicitor. Is the father on the birth certificate? Dont worry about him not paying, go to CSA. x

 

[suzanne108]

Hiya....think I remember you from third tri??

Welcome to single parents

Can't believe he tried taking your son off you whilst you were shopping. What an absolute dick!

Sounds like you and Lewis are better off without. xx

 

[lou_w34]

Oh you poor thing!
You must have been so scared!
He sounds like a right loser!

Welcome to single parents

xx

 

[teal]

Hello

Sending you huge hugs xx

 

[tinkabells]

HIya and hugs to you both, what a 1st class prat, your much better off without him and yeah take him to csa xxx

 

[sineady]

Thankyou ladies really means alot to have someone to talk too about it if you know what i mean??? & yes his name is on the birth certificate.....but i am soooo glad that lewis has my last name. if i went to csa i wouldnt get anything from him really anyway because hes too lazy to get a job