Law Changes Regarding Birth Certificate

[Younglutonmum]

aw we shud all go in a group! mums against bad dads! lol cud b fun! listen to me im only 3mnths preg n already wantin to fgh against it! i dont see how they can say aw the dads name has 2 b on the birth cert, what about the arseholes tht deny there babys 4m day1? or ask for terminations n dont want to be there? they cany justify tht, can they??

xx

I totally agree with you hun. My ex didnt want to know from day one so why should he get the privilage of being named father?? He's just a sperm doner in my eyes!!

Yay lets go to the Commons & cause some trouble!! I'd be up for it!!

 

[thesockqueen]

Me too!!! I'm 27 weeks pregnant so if the law is passed it'll come into effect just before my due date (30th December!). The father claimed he wanted to know but has since said he doesn't care, so why should I have to name him?? I want him as far away from me as possible, plus I believe that awarding him equal responsibility for MY baby would cause him to exercise his new 'powers' just to spite me!! How the hell they are going to police this I don't know, but I certainly won't be complying!!!
He never wanted this baby, he tried to force me to have an abortion, so he can go fuck himself as far as I'm concerned!

 

[destiny27]

If i am expecting again, i'd rather pay the fine than have his name on the birth certificate

thats just stupid

as for proving you dont know who the father is, what a load of crap

 

[Mummy&bump]

Me too!!! I'm 27 weeks pregnant so if the law is passed it'll come into effect just before my due date (30th December!). The father claimed he wanted to know but has since said he doesn't care, so why should I have to name him?? I want him as far away from me as possible, plus I believe that awarding him equal responsibility for MY baby would cause him to exercise his new 'powers' just to spite me!! How the hell they are going to police this I don't know, but I certainly won't be complying!!!
He never wanted this baby, he tried to force me to have an abortion, so he can go fuck himself as far as I'm concerned!

is it really goin 2 cum in2 affect tht soon if it goes ahead?? this is seriously buggin me! i betta start savin up tht extra £200! never in my life will b on tht birth certificate! i think we shud start sum sort of poll n send it off them them!! arse wipes!!
xx

 

[Younglutonmum]

We should seriously try & get an online petition started or something?? Maybe send an email to friends & then forward it to the Commons?

 

[Mummy&bump]

ye lets do it! sort the *******s out! we can all get friends n family to sign it for us as well! i know loads already that would sign it 4 me! lets get it on the move, for the sake of our beautiful babies

xx

 

[Younglutonmum]

Im thinking to perhaps start a Facebook group up & go form there what ya think??

Ru on Facebook Mummy&Bump coz u could be admin with me!

 

[Mummy&bump]

i am lol but i cnt member my id thingy il go try log on see if i can guess it! but htink its deff worth a shot!!

xx

 

[Younglutonmum]

i am lol but i cnt member my id thingy il go try log on see if i can guess it! but htink its deff worth a shot!!

xx

Wicked

Let me know if u can get into ur Facebook & then i'll pm you my real name so you can add me

 

[Mummy&bump]

yeee i actually remeber my password! god know wat else my brain will do today! k u pm me mrs n il try find u !

xx

 

[Sinead]

Just being devils advocate - but what about mothers who decide that they don't want the father involved in the child's life? Even if the man is decent and wants to be involved? That mother could just be spiteful and not put him on, whereas if this gets passed they would have to. I know this is more than likely to be a minority (although do know of one girl who did this - made a guy feel that they were in a realtionship and told him she was using protection, then said she was pregnant and no longer wanted to be with him, he's tried everything to get contact with the child, but she won't allow it)

btw - this is just the flipside of it and not necessarily my opinion

Good luck with setting up the facebook page xx

 

[Mummy&bump]

I get ya! i do feel for men who actually want to be in there childs life when they are decent men! some women jus dont know wat they got sometimes which kinda peeves me off! If i knew my ex wud a great dad n a good man it wudnt be like this! but u jus dnt turn round to sum1 after 15mtnhs of tryin n say i want a dna then to get rid of it, cum to think of it i remember him emailin me sayin u and ur ******* baby! is that the kinda man who deserves to be a father?? i dont thinkin so! i gotta protect my baby!

xxx

 

[Sinead]

I get ya! i do feel for men who actually want to be in there childs life when they are decent men! some women jus dont know wat they got sometimes which kinda peeves me off! If i knew my ex wud a great dad n a good man it wudnt be like this! but u jus dnt turn round to sum1 after 15mtnhs of tryin n say i want a dna then to get rid of it, cum to think of it i remember him emailin me sayin u and ur ******* baby! is that the kinda man who deserves to be a father?? i dont thinkin so! i gotta protect my baby!

xxx

I definitely agree with you - it maybe worth you hanging onto those emails as they may help you not to put him on the birth cert

 

[Mummy&bump]

ye iv got every single 1 and the texts! he wants a fight hes got 1! i get so angry about it sumtimes but im fed up angerin myself hes not worth it!

xx