ayoungermama
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This might be in the wrong section and if it is I'm sorry and feel free to move it.
I really hate to explain this because it is so long winded and complicated but I will try my best.
I am 21 and I have a 3 year old little girl. My common law husband is a great father and a wonderful person. I love him very much...
But for a long time i haven't really been into the idea of having sex very often. I didn't think much of it.
I met a woman at work who is the same age as me. She is an open lesbian. We began talking and made fast friends. After talking for a while she came over the my house to have some drinks. After a few drinks we found ourselves cuddling, with her hands on my thigh. I was sprawled across her with my head on her chest only inches away from her face. We never kissed but we had some very intimate moments that night.
Since then I have been struggling with my feelings for her constantly and my attractions and orientation in general.
People always say that if you are confused you should leave the relationship but it makes it a bit more complicated when there is a child involved. I do rely on him financially. And like I said I DO love him. Obviously I'm very confused.
I'm wondering if anyone has some advice. If not thank you for reading and I feel better just getting it off my chest if nothing else.
I really hate to explain this because it is so long winded and complicated but I will try my best.
I am 21 and I have a 3 year old little girl. My common law husband is a great father and a wonderful person. I love him very much...
But for a long time i haven't really been into the idea of having sex very often. I didn't think much of it.
I met a woman at work who is the same age as me. She is an open lesbian. We began talking and made fast friends. After talking for a while she came over the my house to have some drinks. After a few drinks we found ourselves cuddling, with her hands on my thigh. I was sprawled across her with my head on her chest only inches away from her face. We never kissed but we had some very intimate moments that night.
Since then I have been struggling with my feelings for her constantly and my attractions and orientation in general.
People always say that if you are confused you should leave the relationship but it makes it a bit more complicated when there is a child involved. I do rely on him financially. And like I said I DO love him. Obviously I'm very confused.
I'm wondering if anyone has some advice. If not thank you for reading and I feel better just getting it off my chest if nothing else.