lets see how many of u...

[BrEeZeY]

^^ i know i jst hope they understand that even if they did plan there pregnancy and they are pregnant or have kids there is no reason to close a thread...(it be alil late lol)

 

[aubreee]

yea i think if this was a thread about who is underage and is currently ttc that would be closed. wouldn't support that either.
but this one is in retrospect, so it's too late anyway.

but what question just popped up in my head is:

if it was NTNP or even planned was it clear for both of you or are there girls that ntnp/ plan when their partner wasn't aware of it?
(i just saw a documentary about that pregnancy pack up in Ma a couple of years ago, that's why)

 

[amygwen]

Mine was because we weren't trying but we weren't preventing either. Although we were super unexcited when we found out we were pregnant.. so it was just out of stupidity.

 

[lizardbreath]

with Jaymee stopped taking my pill after complications , had a little too much to drink both me and OH and Presto Jaymee.

and with this baby NTNP

 

[twinmummy06]

our first pregnancy was planned, although that was back in the day when i was still a teenager lol. the twins part, definately was not expected

 

[Leah_xx]

Forgot I didnt take my pill that day. was sick at the time and took my other meds and tho i had taken my BC pill but I guess I didnt.
OH didnt use condoms.
but wouldnt change being a momma here soon.

 

[LittlePeople]

We were NTNP... I was told that I would have problems conceiving so wasn't really that good with the BC lol!

 

[rainbows_x]

if it was NTNP or even planned was it clear for both of you or are there girls that ntnp/ plan when their partner wasn't aware of it?
(i just saw a documentary about that pregnancy pack up in Ma a couple of years ago, that's why)

Me and my partner both knew I wasn't on contraception following my miscarriage, and he never wore condoms so we were both fully aware it COULD happen & I was more fertile the few weeks after a MC.

Anyone who is NTNP behind their partners back really shouldn't be. It's incredibly selfish to bring a baby into the world with the father not knowing you are doing so by not telling him.
x

 

[Burchy314]

if it was NTNP or even planned was it clear for both of you or are there girls that ntnp/ plan when their partner wasn't aware of it?
(i just saw a documentary about that pregnancy pack up in Ma a couple of years ago, that's why)

Me and my partner both knew I wasn't on contraception following my miscarriage, and he never wore condoms so we were both fully aware it COULD happen & I was more fertile the few weeks after a MC.

Anyone who is NTNP behind their partners back really shouldn't be. It's incredibly selfish to bring a baby into the world with the father not knowing you are doing so by not telling him.
x

I completly agree with this! It is deffintally something that you both need to know about and agree about. That is parenting.

 

[tasha41]

Unplanned, BCP fail, but we should have been more careful that month due to antibiotics. Heat of the moment thing we didn't use a condom

 

[Mumma2B2010]

Not planned, it was a moment of lust and passion yada yada yada.

 

[Croc-O-Dile]

we defintely weren't trying but weren't using protection either so i guess NTNP would fit but that just sounds weird as we had been told it would be practically impossible for me to ever have children [due to scarred ovaries] and OH thought he couldn't either so we just weren't even aware that it could happen to us ..xx

Same here! Although mine was due to side effects from medication and a very...um....bad life style.

ETA: Seems to me there were quite a few of us who had "fertility problems." Damn lying doctors getting our pants all up in a bunch over nothing!

 

[MissMamma]

we defintely weren't trying but weren't using protection either so i guess NTNP would fit but that just sounds weird as we had been told it would be practically impossible for me to ever have children [due to scarred ovaries] and OH thought he couldn't either so we just weren't even aware that it could happen to us ..xx

Same here! Although mine was due to side effects from medication and a very...um....bad life style.

ETA: Seems to me there were quite a few of us who had "fertility problems." Damn lying doctors getting our pants all up in a bunch over nothing!

I know! I had literally only just come round to the idea i might never be able to have kids and WHAM! me and OH had even started talking about adopting in the future..xx

 

[vhal_x]

I thought I had fertility problems...

Lost my virginity with my ex (not FOB), and was with him for almost three years and had only used protection a handful of times (we were both clean btw!). My mum had fertility problems but I was just a fluke so I assumed that I was having the same problem.

Anyway, three years together and no pregnancy scares or anything. Eventually we split up (not through lack of children) and I met and fell in love with someone else quite soon after.

We had just gotten together and we both really wanted a baby, so I made sure he knew this from the start about how I might not be able to have a baby (incase he'd rather be with someone who could).

But, he was really supportive and said that no matter what he loved me and even if we couldn't have kids we'd still be together and maybe in the future we could adopt.

So we started TTC straight away, figuring that if it'd ever happen, it would take a long long time.

I had a period early in the relationship, and a month and 11 days after we started going out I was due another period, and it didn't come, so I took a test and... .

So technically LO was planned, but still shocked us in a massive way Was the best thing ever finding out we were going to be a mummy and daddy xx

ETA: Now I'm starting to think that maybe it's my ex who has the fertility problems?
​

 

[BrEeZeY]

^^ how old r u hun?

( maybe ur OH has faster swimmers, than ur ex lol )

 

[vhal_x]

^^ how old r u hun?

( maybe ur OH has faster swimmers, than ur ex lol )

I'm 18 now, but was 17 when we first got together, and I know that seems really young to be TTC but we really didn't expect it to happen so fast. But now that it has, we wouldn't have had it any other way xx​

 

[BrEeZeY]

^^ i wanted kids young but nt at 19 but now that i have a child i def wouldnt have changed how it happened, otherwise i wouldnt have started dating OH and wouldnt be married!

 

[18singlemom2b]

it really does shock me that so many others had or thought they had fertility problems..i thought i was the one of the only people who faced that but it seems so common

 

[x__amour]

Well... OH and I decided to try and have a baby but nothing ever happened! All the pregnancy tests were negative and then I got cold feet so I said, "Let's wait a couple of years when we've been to college and are more financially stable." Blahblahblah. A couple days later I took one last pregnancy test completely expecting it to be negative aaaaaaand it wasn't!

 

[faolan5109]

fob and i were together for 3 year and ntnp but the one time he uses one his evil russian sperm broke through and sought revenage!