light hearted ttc

[hello_kitty]

Hi ladies havent been on here for awhile. Nothing new going on. I read briefly through the the posts...Josephine did you decide to ttc #2 after all?

Christie, Dominic is sooo big! I wish my lo was that big he is almost 11 months and weighs 18lbs max.

Ashley - I am so sorry about your husband. I cant imagine being in your shoes. Before you got pregnant, was your dh ok with the idea of having another one or was he against it in the first place? Personally, I wouldnt dream of having a second child if I knew my husband's reaction would be like that. I want dh to be as excited about our second child as he was with Zachary. Thats why I keep nagging him sometimes and asking "are you sure you want a second one?" and sometimes I play pranks on him about being pregnant just to see his reaction. I really hope your husband will come around though. It was kind of mean...actually really mean for him to still hope that something would possibly happen to the baby...for Christ sake's thats his own child whether he wants it or not! If my dh ever says that to me when I'm pregnant I'm gonna smack him in the head.

Ok, gotta go walk the dogs now...I swear I hate these dogs sometimes. I'm too busy for them and dh doesnt want me to get rid of them!

 

[josephine3]

Ashley what an awful thing o say to you! how many weeks are u now he shud be accepting it by now. He must still be in denial. No excuse for saying something so horrid tho.

 

[ricschick]

AC I'm so sorry he is treating you this way!! You need to tell him how you feel this just isn't fair!! I'm so cross! What did he expect when you decided to ttc?? (Or was it a surprise? ) I just hope he snaps out of it was he like this the 1 st time around? Xx

 

[josephine3]

Btw hello kitty no we're not trying just worried we may have accidentally caught the egg!

Rics - ashleys baby was a suprise but thats no excuse! He knew what could happen! I think it did take him a long time to get his head round it with the 1st too. Have u had a scan yet ashley? Maybe that would make it seem more real to him x

 

[mzswizz]

Ashley-I hope he gets over whatever he is going through and finally accepts that you are pregnant. And just enjoy this wonderful blessing coming your way

AFM, today marks 9dpo for me. Well, today I had to wake up at 5am to go to Seattle to take my friend to her doc appt. @ 8:45am (Seattle is 2 hrs away). I took my temp and was surprised to see it at 97.27 being that it was 5am and I used a temp adjuster which put me at 97.67 which seems pretty accurate. I've realized from all the times I did ov, AF usually comes the day after 12dpo. So I have 3 more days to see what's going to happen. If my temp starts dropping, then I will know that AF is on its way. I should be expecting AF by Tuesday so we shall see what happens. Im getting more cm and I think its from the prenatal vitamins im taking. Also, I have mild cramping. But don't know if its just pms or pregnancy related. But the next few days of temps should tell me what's going on.

 

[mzswizz]

I don't know if prenatal vitamins are causing me to have loads of milky white discharge but I have been leaking it like crazy for the past 2-3 days and its odorless and doesn't itch. I just have this "Wet" feeling and go to the bathroom to see it ALL OVER MY UNDIES.

 

[josephine3]

I had that when i was pregnant! Also i do think prenatals increased my discharge too. What brand are they? Mine were pregnacare.
Have u tested again yet rics? X

 

[ricschick]

all sounding good Patrice!! fx for you xxx

yeah I tested this afternoon and bfn iv just stopped spotting it lasted 4 days was that my period?? I only had to wear a panty liner and it remained brown and had 1 tiny clot?? I don't no whats going on so we're just gonna bed every other day and see what happens xx

 

[mzswizz]

Jo-I was prescribed prenatal vitamins from the doctor. It just says prenatal vitamins on it. It doesn't have a name brand on it

Rics-Hmm maybe it was ov spotting or your body adjusting itself.

AFM, im 10dpo and my temp is 97.81 today. Earlier, it was 97.29 but I knew that it was because I was freezing. So this morning, DH closed the windows and I was able to sleep for 3 hrs and when I took my temp, it was at 97.81 which is accurate to me. Usually, I feel warm when I wake up, but DH had the windows completely open which made me freezing when I woke up. Also, was thinking the prenatal vitamins were causing me to have milky white discharge but couldn't find anything that stated that. Also the discharge came before I took my daily prenatal so im thinking, the vitamins didn't cause it at all. Don't know what did but I know atleast I know its not from DH. Today, im a little down because I got a phone call from my mom letting me know my uncle just passed this morning due to unknown causes for now. Well, that's it.

 

[ricschick]

look what I got looks like im going to ovulate!! cd38 took long enough!!!!!!!!!!

 

[josephine3]

You got me excited then i thought it was a hpt!
hope ashleys ok...shes not been on since that thing with the bf..

 

[ricschick]

I wish it was!!! lol I hope shes ok too!! it cant be easy for her!! xx

 

[AC1987]

Sorry guys! I'm alright, just got busy over the weekend. I've come to the conclusion my dh is a... CHILD!! Seriously he just needs to GROW up!!!

This was our conversation last night
Me: "So I'm gonna print out this thing that says 'I'm gonna be a big sister March 2014' and take a pic of Cassidy with it, and I'll either give a copy to your parents or email them"
Him: "What? No you can't do that.. you don't even know if you're... you know"
Me: "Uhhh yes I do!!"
Him: "No that's just gas"
Me: "Mmmhmm with a heartbeat!!"
Him: "That's some strange gas you have there"

I swear he is acting like a child!! I don't get it. I mean I know he is super stressed over finances.. but its not I purposely went behind his back to get pregnant.

And yes this was a surprise, not planned.. it was just as much as a shock to me!!

Yea a scan helped SOOO much the last time only this time I won't be getting one til oct 29th.. so like 4 weeks away.
I'm DYING to tell all my fb friends I'm pregnant only I would like for his parents to know first and I know his parents are already gonna be upset they hafta find out SO much later then my family

 

[ricschick]

hun I would tell his parents this isn't fair on you and they maybe able to talk some sense into him! tell em I say xxx

 

[josephine3]

Are u showing yet? Night be hard to keep it secret too much longer!

 

[josephine3]

Did u eva do a digi test? Its hard to deny the words 'pregnant'. Tho i think the hccg drops afta so any weeks so it may be too late for one to work you need to let him kno how hurtful comments like that are when ur trying to get excited about a new baby. You say uv heard the heartbeat? Surely thats made it real for him?

 

[ricschick]

Patrice did you have spotting before ov this month? xx

 

[AC1987]

My cousin gave me a great idea, because he is being such a butt about it, she told me to do what he did last time to me but do it to him. Like Last time we told his parents he made it seem like I had done wrong and that I needed to fess up about something and it was just such an awkward and embarrassing moment!! So what I plan on doing is printing out this pic
https://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y260/AshleyMiranda/2013-09-30001006_zps6506c76e.jpg

And as soon as we step into his parents house I'll be like "phil has something to give you and just hand him the paper at that moment" therefore he has no escape route. Because its so silly how he is being!!

No I never took a digi test, the only way I was actually able to test was tell him I was buying pregnancy tests for my sister, which I usually do since they're cheaper here. And it was just a dollar store one, but I did show it to him.

I think once its out there he will be better, I told him how upset his mom will be with finding out so late.. I mean even last time she found out at 9 weeks and that seemed late to her!! And really even if something WERE to happen, I mean I hope to God nothing does, but I would need a lot of help if it did. So I think they should know now. And I told him that ALL my family knows, he wasn't happy he was like "why would you tell them when theres probably nothing even there" I WISH he could feel a baby move in him and then for someone to tell him its not there.

 

[ricschick]

great idea!!! you go girl when you going to put your plan in motion? xx

 

[ricschick]

oh shes beautiful by the way xx