light hearted ttc

[josephine3]

I had a 3rd degree tear too. Nothing so far but will let u kno if i feel anything untoward this time around!

 

[AC1987]

Its new... I've had a lot more aches and pains this time

 

[hello_kitty]

Just got the dip test from the dollar store and it was negative. This is really weird. I am 4 days late based on last month's cycle and 2 days late based on avg cycle. Anyways, I have an appointment scheduled tomorrow morning and hopefully can get some advice.

 

[ricschick]

Good luck kitty xx

 

[hello_kitty]

Thanks Claire, if I am not pregnant I would be even more concerned because that means my cycle is messed up.

 

[josephine3]

Aww, i really thought u mite get a line on a dipstick

Ashley i spoke too soon! Been having perineal tenderness today

 

[mzswizz]

AFM, im cd12 and just waiting to ovulate. Nothing new is really going on. DH is hoping that we can catch the egg also so we shall see. I still have increased cm and i mean by the loads...you would think im wetting myself Not a good feeling at all but its all for the LO in the making. The things I go through. DH has a week left and then he is back at home with me yay So cant wait for that.

 

[magicwhisper]

so happy!
we saw the heartbeat straight away, baby waved and jumped at us too
baby measured at 11+1 weeks so 6 days behind but the heartbeat was really good they said. i have another scan 0n the 6th because baby was slightly to small to do there tests ect on him/her so i get to see baby a extra time

we got a free picture because it was a bit blurey

we also announced it on fb

oh and i am off to see my family tomorrow

internet is slow so i cant upload pictures but they are on my journal!

 

[AC1987]

awwww great news zoey!!!


Patrice sounds messy bahaha I know I hafta wear panty liners a lot because of cm hahahah


Jo, I'm hoping it goes away its really annoying me, I know things get tight all there usually through pregnancy so maybe the midwife will shed some light when I ask about it.


AFM I'm sick with a cold. Its tough watching LO with it...

 

[ricschick]

I got a positive opk! and have had sharp pains on my left side so I'm ov! now I just hope we have catch the egg

 

[AC1987]

Oooohh yay!!

 

[hello_kitty]

Claire, I had sharp pains a few days ago also. It was on my right side, but it woulda been too late to ovulate at that time because it happened around the time I was supposed to get my period. So far my period is 6 days late based on last month's cycle and 4 days late on avg. Somehow I dont know why but I think I am pregnant. Last time with Zachary, I didnt get a positive test until 7 days after my missed period.

My dh and his smart mouth he went to work and told his boss that we are expecting. They invited us over for dinner last night and the wife asked "so I heard you're expecting". I didnt know what to say for fear of embarrassing my husband so I just went with the flow, and we started talking about gender. Wow, now I have to find my husband a baby.

 

[AC1987]

bahahahha that's why I wouldn't dare tell my hubby til I knew for sure, for fear something like that could happen!! I hope you are pregnant then for his sake! Well if your period comes tell him it was a miscarriage.


AFM I'm thinking about talking to the midwife to tell my DH to start changing the cat litter. I can't even complain if I find something heavy he just tells me I'm not exercising enough.

 

[hello_kitty]

Ashley - I told him that "I might be pregnant", but he went around and said I'm pregnant. I guess he's really anxious for another baby. Yea, if my period decides to come I'll just tell him "well, I guess Im not pregnant after all, sorry to pop your bubble", thats better than telling him I miscarried and making him feel bad.

 

[AC1987]

then lets hope you are pregnant then! How long til you will test again?


AFM, still sick.. blah.. I hafta do a bunch more cleaning, I'm tired of my house looking like a mess

 

[josephine3]

Wow i wud be annoyed if that was my hubby! How can he announce it to people wen ur not even sure yet! Also is ur name lilly i forget lol.. I dont want to keep having to call u hello kitty
fx'd for u! So the news is slowly starting to sink in for me... I told my boss yesterday and she took it better than expected. I was going to wait but we all had an appraisal so thought id take the opportunity. So glad thats over with. Havent told my parents or anyone else yet and am making sure oh keeps it to himself too!

 

[magicwhisper]

well i got a letter today saying the blood work they took before the scan they didnt take enough of it so i have too do it again ... could be a lot worse

 

[AC1987]

Jo, it'll take time to get used to, after you tell a few more people I find it starts to feel more real.


Zoey, awww noo not more blood work ahha I don't mind getting it as long as they know what they're doing


AFM I'm so pissed at my DH. I swear he is going out of his way to be a jerk to me this time around, that or its hormones, either way I'm mad at him!!
First he keeps calling me lazy because I'm so tired by the end of the day. I think he has this view of how I am and thinks I am like that the entire day, he doesn't get to see my work my butt off on house work and taking care of Cassidy.
So like if I say I can't change the cat litter anymore that its heavy he tells me it is because I need to work out more not that changing cat litter is even safe when you're pregnant.
And then on one hand he tells me I need to eat more then just cereal on the other he won't buy groceries!!! Like whenever we do a shop he puts a buncha useless stuff in the cart and then tells me we've blown our shopping budget for the month and to make it work. Well making it work means I just hafta eat cereal for lunch while he goes out to eat And so like today I told him there was nothing to eat for lunch, and he gets all mad at me... and I told him we are out of milk and he tells me that he is NOT going to be picking any up at lunch. It just bothers me so much that if its something HE wants to buy or do there is money for that.

 

[ricschick]

Ac something seriously has to change! He can't keep treating you like this!! It makes me so mad! This I'd the one time in your life when you should feel special and he should be making you feel special!! Not calling you lazy!! When's the last time he grew a baby????? Sorry it makes me so cross!! I hope your ok! He really needs someone to tell him what an arse he Is being. Would his family talk to him about it? Xx💜

 

[magicwhisper]

I agree with rics he is treating you horrible and needs a mental kick up the bum ... and cat litter it is the first thing we got told that we can't change it ever and we don't even have a cat