light hearted ttc

[boxxey]

im starting to contract again

 

[Blondiejay]

Fingers crossed. I'm off to bed now so I'll check in in the morning. Good luck!!!

 

[hello_kitty]

Ashley and Susi - This sounds horrible but I am actually jealous of you guys. I was wanting to spend quality time with Zachary for the first year before becoming pregnant again. We also had travel plans which we will stick to but I dont think it will be as fun since I will have to be carrying a bump. I was so excited to use my ergo this summer with Zachary but dont know how I will use it with a bump. I had an hcg test done a few hours ago and now waiting for them to call me back with the results so at this time, I am not definitely sure that I am pregnant yet. Will update later. My husband is excited though saying they will be so close in age its gonna be fun.

Its funny how the second child and so forth will never be the same as the first. With Zachary, I was so happy when I found out that I started crying. I began talking to my bump as soon as I found out. With this baby, I am still overwhelmed with taking care of Zachary that I havent paid much attention to it. It will probably start sinking in when I feel the first kick. Do I sound horrible?

Boxxey - Hope its over for you soon, contractions are a pain!

 

[josephine3]

Oooh boxxey awaiting your baby news! Maybe u have ur baby by now!
Wow hello kity what a big surprise! Were u ntnp? Gosh i bet it will take a while to sink in ! Many congrats.
I miss my bump too but dont think im ready to actually have another baby, but wouldnt mind just being pregnant lol .

Ashley - georgia doesnt do all that Cassidy sounds very active! Georgia has still only rolled a handful of times and can just about sit unaided for a few seconds. She very vocal tho and chatters away to her toys all day long. She can say 'mama' but seems to have got bored of it recently.

 

[Blondiejay]

Aww hun you don't sound horrible at all. It's natural to feel all these different emotions.
Once it's sunk in I'm sure you will feel happier. As the age gap is so close I reckon both babies will be the best of friends, it's happened with my cousins girls.
You've got us ladies here to talk to too if you are ever feeling down. X

 

[Blondiejay]

Oh wow Jo, Georgia has said mama already! Was that her first word?
Darcy really tries to talk, since she has found her voice she chats away as much as possible! I put her in her cot for a nap yesterday and for 45 minutes I could hear her chatting away to her mobile!!

 

[josephine3]

Yeah she said 'mom' first at 4 months. Then she got really good at 'mamamama' and said it constantly for about as month but got bored of it it seems cos she rarely says it now unless shes upset.

I bet boxxey has her baby by now!

 

[boxxey]

no baby yet it stopped again

 

[AC1987]

oooohh boxxy I'm excited for you!!!

awwww lily, thats tough! yes I think I know how you feel, you're so overwelmed because watching a small baby is hard enough, and you're right it'll never be the same. But don't worry if you are pregnant I'm sure you'll manage to get the strength to carry on, just make your DH do a buttload of work and i hope he spoils you!

Jo, she says mama?! What I wish Cassidy would, all she says like oooohh ahhhh, grrrrrr(she growls ALOT) and then blows raspberries

Susi I'm sure I've asked this... but how old is Darcy now? I'm having a hard time remembering things.


Cassidy was up pretty much ALLL night!! wheres my straight jacket I need to commit myself jk!! but from 12-4am she was just up babbling away to herself crying a little bit but basically keeping me up ALOT!

 

[boxxey]

well I have contractions on and off but not good enough to go to the hospital heres my 35 week and 4 day bump, all though I feel like im 52 weeks lol

 

[hello_kitty]

Zachary has also been babbling a lot lately and has started to giggle. Its adorable!

Boxxey - looks like the baby will come any minute now. Thats quite a big bump for 35 weeks.

I'm eagerly awaiting for a phone call from the clinic. I need to know if I am pregnant or not for sure. This is driving me crazy!

 

[Blondiejay]

Jo, is 4 months really early to talk? It sounds like she is very advanced! I keep saying mama to Darcy.

Ashley, sorry to hear Cassidy kept you up, hope you have a better night tonight.
Darcy will be 12 weeks on Sunday...where did that go??? I'll try and get a signature thing with how old she is.

Boxxey, great bump. Keep us posted! Exciting times.

 

[josephine3]

Awww what no baby yet boxxey? That is a very low bump u got goin on there! I forget do u kno what ur having? A boy i think...?

Im not sure if 4 months is early for talking i looked on the calendar for the exact date she did it was 19 weeks so more like 5 months. I did encourage her to do it tho, try moving your mouth really slowly and getting their attention while u do it. She finds it fascinating. She likes it when i say 'bird' and 'owl' too looking at her wallpaper. Apparently i was an early talker but wasnt interested in walking till later. Looks like Georgia will be the same ! She makes sum right weird noises! Even an actual baby 'gaga' noise too lol. She doesnt do growls tho when shes cross she goes 'Mmmmmm' really loud!

 

[boxxey]

yes its a boy and I just want him out

 

[AC1987]

gaaahhh my in laws are over and I'm going batty
First I get lectured for an hour about how I NEED to learn how to shoot a gun and how I NEED to own one. Errmm NO I'm not comfy with one or learning how to use one but apparently I'm just CRAZY and stupid because it means that I'm not being a good mom because of Cassidy. I'm so pissed!! Like I didn't come to the south to have there ways thrown on me.
I think I'm gonna need to have a "talk" with my DH as he too was attacking me too..
THEN I hear my MIL call my LO HER baby. Its not HER baby shes MINE.
And then like they came at lunchtime but refused to eat with us, then told us to eat. Then its dinner time and they dont want Cassidy to go out because its raining umm its RAIN and its not like I'm gonna just LEAVE her out there, it would be to the car then to a restaurant. GAH! I'm so mad Like I'm NOT gonna leave my LO with my MIL today, I'm too mad, I'll just eat leftovers then if she is being too much of a butthead to go out with us.

 

[hello_kitty]

Ashley - I know how you feel. Grandparents can be like that. My mom was so protective of Zachary whenever she sees him telling us we shouldnt do this, shouldnt do that..it literally almost drove him to tears...and he's a guy. As a result, we kinda stay away from them now..only visiting when its necessary.

Stupid doctor's office didnt call me to tell me of the hcg result. I was waiting eagerly the whole day yesterday, carrying my phone around. I called them twice and the second time they told me that the doctor hasnt looked at the result yet. Now I have to wait until Monday. I really just wanna go buy another pregnancy test but that would be stupid since I already had a blood test done. For some reason guys, I have a feeling this is a false alarm...since we only dtd twice. I just want to get this out of the way and stop thinking about it.

 

[boxxey]

I would go buy another test, but I also did 3 more after I had my bloodwork done cause I was paranoid, I would go buy one and do it

 

[hello_kitty]

boxxey - just out of curiosity, what were you paranoid about? For some reason, if I am indeed pregnant again, I feel totally different than when I was pregnant with Zachary. I just want to know the result to get it over with. I actually took 2 pregnancy tests and it showed positive. This is going to sound bad, but I feel lack of excitement. Maybe because Zachary has got me on my feet all the time, I dont have time to think about this "bump". As soon as I found out I was pregnant with Zachary I was sooo excited, I couldnt sleep the first night. This time around I'm like "ehh, whatever, gotta go feed Zachary now". Sounds so horrible, but I really dont have time to pay attention to it =(. If I am pregnant, I feel so guilty already due to lack of attention. I guess this is what happens when you fall pregnant so fast when lo is so young.

 

[boxxey]

we had been trying for 7 months and I just didn't believe no matter how many times I peed on a stick or had a dr tell me yes Christie u r pregnant lol I did a digital one every friggin week to make sure it would say 2+ or 3+ plus I have 4 kids and again never had issues getting pregnant so when this one took so long I thought I was dreaming

 

[Blondiejay]

Lily, have you had your results back yet?

Ashley, sorry to hear you are having a bad time.

Jo, I keep saying mama to Darcy to get her used to it!

Boxxey, any news?

A friend of mine had a little boy last night, 2 weeks early. He was 6lb4, can't wait to meet him and have cuddles.