Loneliness

[lil lovey]

Aaah 4 days until my c section but I'm really so sad and lonely. This should be such an exciting time of my life but I wish I had 'someone'(partner) to bond and share the excitement withbut there's no one.I'm been single this whole pregnancy which has been so hard and lonely I just keep on crying and feeling so sorry for myself. How will this ever work being a single parent? I just don't know what to do I feel so alone and scared.

Sorry for the pointless thread I just need to vent a lil

 

[lil lovey]

Oh I forgot to introduce myself. I'm Lovey I'm 17 years old and soon to be single mommy. FOB is trying to be in the pic but not trying enough.

 

[Shezza84uk]

Awww sorry your feeling this way hun you will be ok, I was also on my own and had no partner with me during my c section, Initially after being asked where was my partner I felt like the biggest loser however after my son was born it was the most amazing experience I couldn't stop looking at him and loved that I didn't have to share him with anyone I just took in his perfections as much as I wanted to. Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and enjoy being a mommy xx

 

[lil lovey]

Thank you I'll mos def try and enjoy the final days.

 

[Jennifurball]

You will be ok.

I found it harder having my ex at the birth, that special moment. x

 

[whatwillbe]

Hi lovely, I'm sorry your going through this alone, I'm almost due and have been split from fob sonic I was5 weeks pregnant, it is very lonely and like you the last few weeks have been really hard, wishing fob would want to be with me and baby, but you can do this, I know it's scary ! This is my fourth baby and I'm scared but it would probably be harder if fob was there, good luck and your not alone here x

 

[AbbynChloe]

How are you doing Lovey?? xxxx

 

[lil lovey]

I'm feeling so down today..cuz I won't be having my baby today but I guess 2mrw is also ok..

 

[AbbynChloe]

ahhh a Christmas day baby!! how awesome will that be??!!??

don't be down sweetie!! thought of any names yet?? xxxxxx

 

[lil lovey]

Yes his name is Lwandile its a traditional Zulu name which means Love has intensified..I'm excited but getting nerves:S

 

[AbbynChloe]

that is such a beautiful name!! oh when he is here you will be so so happy, whooooh i love newborns, mmmmmm!! xxxx

 

[lil lovey]

I really know I will..I just can't wait. The time is going slow I'm finding it hard to find something to do to keep me busy