LO's dad giving me mixed messages...what to do?

[LaDY]

My LOs dad continues to give me mixed messages and im sick of it. He continues to hug, peck me on the cheek etc...at first it didn't really phase me as im in love with him and i admit there was alittle hope we would be together but he has just continued it however remains to be so negative about the 2 of us ever being together...it just hit me...he is messing around with my feelings and its not fair, the more he does this the more il never move on...so i told him to stop it as he is just playing with my emotions, he didnt take it very well...i did the right thing though right?

x

 

[lou_w34]

Yes you did!
I know that you still have feelings for him, but you will never be able to move on if he is still doing those things and giving you false hope that theres a chance you may get back together.

Its not fair on you or your lo.

Dont worry about him not taking it very well, he should be mature enough to understand it messes with your head, and stop doing it.

Try and concentrate on just you and lo for now... try not to give him to much thought

 

[sweetlullaby]

i agree with lou!

you did the right thing it isnt fair on you or LO! xx

 

[ashleydarcey]

yeah u did iam in the same situation honey its sooo hard .... xx

 

[nievesmama]

Yes you did do the right thing hun. Its hard but it will get easier, just concentrate on you and LO.

 

[missbline03]

you 100% did the right thing

 

[tinkabells]

good for you xxx

 

[Kara1989]

You totally did the right thing.
I let my ex lead me on for months after we broke up, until we finally got back together, had another baby and he did EXACTLY the same thing and left me again! So stay strong and don't let him lead you on, it just isn't fair.