loss of my first child please help

[mjbazz]

hi all,
this is my story

on tues nite of this week i noticed a lil bit of blood as i went to the toilet this is the only time it had happened so went into hospital the next morning, i turned 12wks on the monday, then we got the shocking news that the baby didnt have a heartbeat i was told the baby had died at 7wks 4days, me and my partner are devastated, the docotr asked what option i wgoing to take, operation, tablets or naturally i chose naturally and the very next day our cheebee sweet grew its wings i would not wish it on anyone i sat on he toilet floor and sobbed my eyes out i feel guilty for some reason i dont no what i cant sleep i feel horrible i cant stop thinkin about the baby that we never met, im confused dont no what to think and im so scared that when we do decide to have another baby it wil happen again im so confused at the minute i want my baby back please help me
x x x x x x

 

[Waiting2bMommy]

I'm so very sorry for your loss

 

[JASMAK]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[cherylanne]

I'm so very sorry for your loss hun. What your feeling is natural and you are grieving. You need to let yourself go through the process and i'm sorry there is nothing i can say to help you feel better. We lost a baby in June and it does get easier babe i promise. Take care of yourself and give yourself time. Thinking of you xxx

 

[juliespencer9]

time is the only healer, i had a mc in aug, im now preg again, its horrible thing to happen but it does happen because there would have been a problem so your body stops it.
as the weeks pass you will feel more at ease, xx

 

[mugzy]

So sorry you have to go through this. Nothing I can say will make you feel better, but I wanted to send you some and let you know I'm thinking of you.

 

[FEDup1981]

so sorry for ur loss hun, you will find there is a lot of support on this forum xx

 

[moomoo]

im so sorry i had nearly exaclty the same thing happen, although i was 11 weeks with no heatbeat at 7... please feel free to message me if you need to talk xxx

 

[Stardancer]

It's the worst feeling in the world and I am so very sorry you're going through this. There's nothing anyone can say or do to help, it just gets minutely better/easier each day.

 

[honeybunch2k7]

 

[todteach]

Sending you huge . I'm so sorry hun.

 

[susan_1981]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Must have been awful for you. I suppose time is the only thing that is going to help at the moment. As for when you are pregnant next time, try not to worry. I worked with a girl who miscarried at 10/11 weeks with her 1st child, she then got pregnant again a couple of months later and had a healthy boy and then got pregnant soon after that and had a second healthy boy. So just because you have miscarried once, doesn't mean it will happen again. My MIL also miscarried but had 3 healthy children. Again, so sorry. Sending you lots of

 

[Drazic<3]

im so sorry for your loss.
I remember that day too. Laying on the bathroom floor sobbing. My heart goes out to you and your OH

 

[Barneyboo]

 

[bootyb]

Im so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.... jes give it time it gets easier... HUGS xoxoxo

 

[Sambatiki]

Im so sorry for your loss

 

[wantababybump]

So sorry for your loss. There is really nothing I can say to make you feel better except it will get easier. Remember tho you may still have your moments but with your OH there you can get through anything. I have had 2 m/c the first one was December 25 2007 at 10wks (but baby stopped growing at 6ish wks) and the most recent one June 09 2008 at 14wks. This forum is great for support and so many ppl on here will have stories of m/c and then having healthy babies. I know I really cant say you shouldnt be scared of getting pregnant again because I am also terrified. I guess you just got to bite the bullet and hope for the best, at least thats what I tell myself anyways. I really wish you all the best and hope you get pregnant again right away (if thats what you want) and have a beautiful, healthy, sticky bean. Again, so sorry you have to go through this. Im around if you need to chat. xx

 

[honey08]

exact same thing appened 2 me in march this yr n its just appening to a friend aswell i was 11wk.5days and i started spotting,went for a scan as was told that baby had died at 6wk...same thing as appened to me mate aswell it must b common, i know u might not think it but time is a healer hun,weve been ttc "proper" since may, wish u the best xx

 

[SJK]

Im so sorry for your loss, this happened to me in aug, take care xx

 

[tillymum]

Thinking of you, it is truely such a devastating thing to go through. Give yourself time to grieve, and we are all here for you to help you through.