Lost my little girl at 19 weeks 4days

[Taurus8484]

Im so so sorry xxxx

 

[sunkiss]

Thanks. I've read a little bit about PPROM. =/ I'd like to try to conceive again in 3 months or so, but my boyfriend isn't ready. He wants to wait about a year.

I'm just not sure how I'm supposed to move past this. I just feel hurt. I feel like my body has failed me. I'm not sure what caused my water to break. It just seems like my pregnancy was too good to be true. I thought it was going to be difficult to get pregnant..yet some how it happened lol and I had barely any symptoms at all. No morning sickness, just sciatic back pain. A couple days before my water started leaking, I had the gender determination ultrasound...and everything looked perfect.

I finally stopped lactating...now my boobs are just deflated. Which doesn't exactly help my confidence. I'm just lucky I have a super supportive boyfriend.

u sound so much like me when i first lost my angel, its so normal the emotions n hurt u r feeling, u have to go through these motions in order to heal, gosh our stories are so similar, i was having the most perfect pregnancy also, hardly any symptoms nor morning sickness, she was such a good baby, losing her was far from my mind, i had an ultrasound that was normal the week b4 also, but that shows just how fast these things can happen, and they couldnt explain why to me either, they said it just happens sometimes, i read as much as i could to educate myself on PPROM n i saw a maternal fetal specialist from the very start with this pregnancy, i wasnt taking any chances this time around, n thank God i did cause there was a reason why n by her finding it early there was a way to help prevent it from happening again...i think waiting 3 mths is a great idea, i got my bfp exactly 3 mths after my loss, my OH was nervous also about trying again but he wanted to make me happy n it all worked out, give him a mth to think a little, i just backed off n gave him time, the guys grieve different from us n they handle it differently, u will smile again hunny, it doesnt seem that way now cause of all the hurt ur feeling but that frown will turn upside down, keep talking about it, it really helps, have a cry when u need too, i still have my private cry moments when im missing her, she will always be ur 1st love n u will see her again, take comfort in knowing one day u will have all those moments with her that u are missing so much right now

 

[Preggies]

Its hard not to drive yourself crazy, especially when you are RH neg..(I'm o neg myself and lost a baby at 17 weeks). Have you ever had rhogam shots? Even if you haven't, usually the blood type incompatibility causes a different set of problems with the baby, not with the sack. I have no idea what happened to my baby at all. I went in the ER cause I couldn't pee, they gave me a catheter, and two days later he died while I had a UTI. Nobody could tell me ANYTHING. I am so sorry you lost your baby. Mysteries like this are the worst. You can try again though! I lost mine feb 28th of this year and was pregnant april 28th. Everything fine so far. A new pregnancy doesnt replace the one you lost but it does help.

 

[IndieGirl]

yeah, I wish I could try again lol. My boyfriend isn't ready. I've only had the shot they gave me before I left the hospital..for the blood type thing.

I keep getting random memory flash backs.. of that day, before I actually gave birth to her. I was sitting at home having cramps and crying. I cried earlier that day too. I guess I just sensed something was wrong but didn't know it.