Lost my PMA Bigstyle and wanna give up !

[fluffyblue]

Hi Im having a bad day today, im 8dpo no temp dip this month so no im out. Ive had enough im sick of trying, sick of temperature taking, sick of all the crap that goes with this ttc lark.

I have all the help and answers I was looking for but somehow cant believe there is a way forward, im 38 now and feel I should leave it alone and just enjoy my life.

Help me girls - i need your PMA as mines got up and walked out the door xx

 

[Mummytofour]

Oh hunni
I know how you feel, we all do.
I had a particularly shite day yesterday as my temps have been screwy. But my friend rang last night and invited me to a late bonfire party, so I am going to go all out tonight and have fun for a change! Anything that takes my mind off this TTC malarky is good!
Remember all the BnB girls are here for you. Take care hunni!

 

[lolly25]

Hi hun , i know your feeling i felt like this the other day when my body wasnt ov'in then did late, now iv got temp dips where i shouldnt. Feels like everyone is pregnant around me . Dont lose hope, anything is possible your temp dip could come tomorrow x take care huni x x

 

[chocolate]

Ah, we all have those days at some point, dont throw in the towel yet though

You could always take a month of of analysing? Ban yourself from on here, and still do your temp but write it on a bit of paper, with the date and shove it in a drawer with all the others, then at the end of the month, put them all down on a graph.


Im not so sure about the temperature dip things, Ive seen tons of charts with them, and then still they get a period, and then Ive seen pregnant charts with no dip! Come think of it, my pregnancy chart with ds only had a bit of a dip on 3dpo!!

 

[debgreasby]

Right Missy, that's quite enough! lol

Here is a big fat overflowing bucket of PMA. Bathe in it! I have spoken

 

[hb1]

It's so horrible to have times like this - if the temping is getting you down then as Chocs says - maybe give it a rest - there's nothing you can do to change this cycle at this point so def take some you time and relax and just be you for a bit - you never know you might be pg!! could be your hormones are kicking in and sending you west!!
If not start temping again after the dreaded AF - either way relax and try to enjoy life - that'll only help your fertility and your future baby! hx

 

[fluffyblue]

thanks girls i know I sound really ungrateful with all the help my specialists are gonna give me next month I mean I got scans every two days from day 10 to tell me when im gonna ovulate so I should be so excited but I cant get past this thing, hubby doing my head in cus everytime I get upset he tells me "you should go see someone" I mean im seeing a fertility specialist, recurrent miscarriage specialist, dietician plus miscarriage support group !

I need to relax I know think im gonna book a short break somewhere just feel that we need to get away and have some fun.

Its soooooooo hard !

 

[fluffyblue]

Right Missy, that's quite enough! lol

Here is a big fat overflowing bucket of PMA. Bathe in it! I have spoken

Hun I know i need to behave !

 

[debgreasby]

Right Missy, that's quite enough! lol

Here is a big fat overflowing bucket of PMA. Bathe in it! I have spoken

Hun I know i need to behave !

Hehe - no idea why but i'm in such a good mood today! It's quite scary lol

 

[fluffyblue]

Uve had the temp dip I want thats why lol

 

[Chilli]

I've been feeling similar lately hun, it all gets too much sometimes and something has to give. I went to doc and got diagnosed with depression - have my first consuelling session this week - but actually just blubbing all over her office and telling someone how crappy it was all making me feel made me feel much better. I think with firends & family we feel we have to hide some of our true feelings sometimes - but at least on here we can all be honest with each other. I'm about to get AF, but I'm not too bothered as long as when it comes it stays... I know the age makes a difference - I'm 39 soon, but you've gotta enjoy life!! You'll be back up again soon - don't forget all the hormones we're dealing with too - personally I think it's a wonder any of us get through this at all - but we will - together!

 

[Rumpskin]

Dont you dare give up Fluffy!

We can sort out your PMA no problem.

I am 38 too honeybunch and I am not giving up this rollercoaster of a ride without a bloody good fight.

xx