Very sad to be joining this forum as we lost our little bean this weekend at 17 weeks. We are totally devestated and finding it hard to come to terms with everything. We feel terribly guilty that we chose to have the amino after our quad test came back with a 1 in 15 chance of downs. It took us a long time to decide to have it in the first place as we knew we wouldnt do anything but keep the baby if it did have downs but just felt we needed to be prepared which ever the outcome. We researched all the risks etc and although we knew there was a risk of miscarriage we new it was extremely low so took the chance. I started to get contractions on Friday and after 2 trips to the hospital they finally took my pain seriously and admitted me. My contractions got stronger during the night and through Saturday and my water broke at lunch time - my contractions got worse until about 9 pm when they suddenly stopped. We were confused about what was going on and thought maybe there was a tiny chance baby would be ok. A doctor did a scan but couldn't really make out what he was seeing and couldn't find a heartbeat do they left me overnight and planned a proper scan for sun morning. On sun morning after little sleep I told the doctor the catheter was causing me discomfort when I tried to sit up. She said this was unlikely to be the catheter and decided to do an internal. This is when they realised the baby was stuck at the top of the vaginal passage and had been all night!!! ( this is the part I struggle to get out of my mind!) I delivered the baby after a few pushes then was taken to surgery. All the tests so far seem to indicate infection caused our loss which was probably due to the amino! Today we got the amino results and they showed no chromosomal problems. We are really struggling with the guilt and blame ourselves for what happened- how are we ever going to cope with knowing our loss is our fault? Would love to hear from anyone who has been through something similar and can offer some advice