LTTTC #1 - Support Group *Please share your story

[DBZ34]

Sorry to hear the witch showed Kat & Bee Bee. FX for your next cycles.

AFM woke this morning to dark brown/dark red spotting. I'm on CD22 and last day of my second round of Femara for this month. I have no idea what it's going on with my body and I'm highly annoyed. Anyone ever have spotting while on Femara?

Actually, I did. But that was like right after ovulation, so I assumed it was ovulation spotting. I think I spotted for two or three days.

But with all the things you're going through right now, spotting is the last thing you need. I think anyone would be annoyed in your shoes. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I hope things get better...

 

[Myshelsong]

Stine -sorry that never happened to me.
Hope you get some answers from your Dr soon

 

[Stine]

The flow is picking up and is more red now like AF. LIKE SERIOUSLY!!!??? My US is Monday at 845 and they don't turn on the phones till 9 so if this is AF I guess when I get there they will cancel the app I'd assume. Either way I think it's a sign the Femara isn't for me. I'll keep you ladies posted. Thanks for the hug. I really need it with all this.

 

[KatO79]

The flow is picking up and is more red now like AF. LIKE SERIOUSLY!!!??? My US is Monday at 845 and they don't turn on the phones till 9 so if this is AF I guess when I get there they will cancel the app I'd assume. Either way I think it's a sign the Femara isn't for me. I'll keep you ladies posted. Thanks for the hug. I really need it with all this.

Oh no Stine, so sorry I'd be so ticked off at the RE. It really sucks that it's happening over the weekend and you can't call them I don't know anything about Femara so can't offer advice only

 

[Myshelsong]

So I got a negative.
Taking a long break, not sure if we are doing next month, we need to talk about it.
Devastated

 

[KatO79]

So I got a negative.
Taking a long break, not sure if we are doing next month, we need to talk about it.
Devastated

Awww Myshelsong, sorry it was a neg for you as well

If you need a break than maybe that might be a good idea.

One of my nurses did tell me though that if IUI is going to work, it's usually in the first 3-4 tries so you could give it another go at one point before trying to move on to IVF.

We'll automatically be moving on to IVF if we reach 6 IUI tries and none of them work (we've been put on the waiting list at the local hospital).

 

[wannabemummyb]

Mysheldong I am sorry sweetie x

 

[DBZ34]

So I got a negative.
Taking a long break, not sure if we are doing next month, we need to talk about it.
Devastated

I'm so sorry, Myshel. I hope this break will be just what you need.

But remember that you found a way to get better results from DH and you found the medication combination that really worked for you. So this cycle wasn't for nothing. You've got a combination of things that can lead to success in the future, so don't give up just yet.

 

[DBZ34]

AFM-

Spoiler

I tested this morning and there was a super faint line there that even DH could see, so I wasn't just having line-eye. But, I'm a little worried it's still the trigger, even though I thought it was out and the line I had today was the same darkness as my last trigger test. This is the first line that's a possible BFP that I've had before 14DPO, so I think that's adding to my cautiousness...but maybe that's a good thing in terms of viability?

So, I'm going to test again in the morning and see what happens. I'm also upping the progesterone, like the doc told me to, just in case it is a BFP. I don't want to ignore it and then end up having another m/c just because I was in denial.

 

[Stine]

So I got a negative.
Taking a long break, not sure if we are doing next month, we need to talk about it.
Devastated

Hugs!!!

AFM - AF is full flow now. I'm in shock and disbelief. Plus I was at a baby shower when it showed. Also got the "when are you gonna have a baby?" My reply "why are you selling one". Her reply was "smart @$$. I guess she doesn't" to mother. She thought I was being rude with my answer until my mother "she can't have any!" and we changed the subject. Some people just don't understand how personal of a question that is and then get mad at me I don't answer. Excuse me but you're the rude one here lady!

I wonder what the RE is going to say/do tomorrow when I share my AF news. He better have answers because I have lots of questions!!!

How's everyone else doing?

 

[KatO79]

So I got a negative.
Taking a long break, not sure if we are doing next month, we need to talk about it.
Devastated

Hugs!!!

AFM - AF is full flow now. I'm in shock and disbelief. Plus I was at a baby shower when it showed. Also got the "when are you gonna have a baby?" My reply "why are you selling one". Her reply was "smart @$$. I guess she doesn't" to mother. She thought I was being rude with my answer until my mother "she can't have any!" and we changed the subject. Some people just don't understand how personal of a question that is and then get mad at me I don't answer. Excuse me but you're the rude one here lady!

I wonder what the RE is going to say/do tomorrow when I share my AF news. He better have answers because I have lots of questions!!!

How's everyone else doing?

Awww Stine, I'm so sorry that not only did it come at the baby shower, some rude woman bothered you. Unfortunately it has become a question many people feel is legitimate to ask others, especially if they're married. I know my DH and I were bombarded with it after 1-2 years of marriage before we started TTCing

I have found an article on how to respond:

If posed with this question, answer simply and then switch the topic.

You may be burning mad or feel like you want to give the person who posed the question a piece of your mind; I have certainly felt that way. But, with practice, I've learned to stop myself from doing this. Over the years, I've discovered that my emotional energy is best directed elsewhere.

You might want to take a deep breath, let it out, and answer in one of the following ways:
•"Not sure. So, how's your new job?"
•"Ask the powers that be, because I don't know."
•"I'd rather not talk about it, thanks."

Or, if you want to go for something more gutsy, you might answer:
•"That's a rather personal question, don't you think? Anyway, how's your new job?"

If you're feeling brave, and you have already decided to start telling people about your struggles, you may use this as an opportunity to talk about infertility:
•"Actually, it's interesting you ask... we've been trying for awhile now."

Another completely legitimate response? You can choose to not answer at all.

You can pretend you didn't hear them ask, just smile, and switch the topic.

You don't have to say anything.

Most people will take the hint. If you find yourself dealing with someone who doesn't, just play the broken-record trick. "I really don't want to talk about it. Actually, no, I'd rather not discuss this now."

And if this still doesn't help, walk away.

I think these might be some good ways you can respond, depending on who's asking and if you're in the mood to talk about your issues conceiving or not.

I hope you find out tomorrow what's going on.

 

[Stine]

OMG!!! I had my ultrasound today and you would not believe what I just found out.

A) NOT MY PERIOD!! I have completely stopped bleeding and the Dr said it was the medication because of all the hormones and it being mid cycle that I restated it, it can cause bleeding.

B) My bleeding did cause my lining to go from 9 to 5 but I was told I should grow it back in time

C) MY EGGS GREW!! Right one now has 2 follies measuring 13 and 14 and my left one still only has 1 but that little lady finally grew too and is now at 13.

I have to go back Thursday and if everything grew I will trigger that day or Friday. Insemination could be Friday at earliest but most likely Saturday. I don't want to get my hopes to high up because this has been a crazy cycle but I am finally seeing results and it feels GREAT!!

 

[KatO79]

OMG!!! I had my ultrasound today and you would not believe what I just found out.

A) NOT MY PERIOD!! I have completely stopped bleeding and the Dr said it was the medication because of all the hormones and it being mid cycle that I restated it, it can cause bleeding.

B) My bleeding did cause my lining to go from 9 to 5 but I was told I should grow it back in time

C) MY EGGS GREW!! Right one now has 2 follies measuring 13 and 14 and my left one still only has 1 but that little lady finally grew too and is now at 13.

I have to go back Thursday and if everything grew I will trigger that day or Friday. Insemination could be Friday at earliest but most likely Saturday. I don't want to get my hopes to high up because this has been a crazy cycle but I am finally seeing results and it feels GREAT!!

Yay Stine Good thing it wasn't your period but just insane they didn't warn you that that could happen

I hope you get to trigger Saturday I may get to trigger Sunday and have my IUI on Monday (I respond too well to the trigger so need to take it 24 hours before IUI instead of 36 hours before) if everything looks good on Friday so maybe we can be IUI buddies

 

[wannabemummyb]

Yay Stine, that's great news x

 

[dede3124]

I am in need of advice. I had an endometrial biopsy today to see if my infection has cleared. My re said we could try the same month as the biopsy, but the doctor that did the biopsy (not affiliated with the re) said we couldn't. I don't know who to believe and I should be ovulating in the next 2-3 days. Any insight? When can we have sex after the biopsy?

 

[KatO79]

I am in need of advice. I had an endometrial biopsy today to see if my infection has cleared. My re said we could try the same month as the biopsy, but the doctor that did the biopsy (not affiliated with the re) said we couldn't. I don't know who to believe and I should be ovulating in the next 2-3 days. Any insight? When can we have sex after the biopsy?

Found this by Googling "endometrial biopsy" and "sex":

After the Endometrial Biopsy


•You will remain in a recovery room until the effects of sedation or anesthesia wear off. You may return home and should rest for about 24 hours. (If you received general anesthesia, be sure to arrange for a ride home.)
•You may experience mild cramping for several days. Over-the-counter pain relievers, such as ibuprofen, may help. (A prescription painkiller may be given after D & C.)
•You may experience slight vaginal bleeding for 1 or 2 days after suction biopsy, and for up to several weeks after D & C. Use sanitary napkins rather than tampons.
•Avoid sexual intercourse and do not douche for 72 hours after a suction biopsy, and for at least 2 weeks after D & C.
•Call your doctor if you experience severe pain, excessive vaginal bleeding, abnormal vaginal discharge, or fever.

Another article says:

After the test

You may feel some soreness in your vagina for a day or two. Some vaginal bleeding or discharge is normal for up to a week after a biopsy. You can use a sanitary pad for the bleeding. Do not do strenuous exercise or heavy lifting for one day after your biopsy. Do not have sex, use tampons, or douche until the spotting stops.

And a 3rd:

Please do not place anything in your vagina and avoid sex (intercourse) for one week following the procedure.

 

[dede3124]

Thanks Kat. I found those too but I wasn't sedated and they all say something different so still confusing as far as making a plan moving forward

 

[DBZ34]

Thanks Kat. I found those too but I wasn't sedated and they all say something different so still confusing as far as making a plan moving forward

When I had mine, my doctor told me no sex for at least three days after the procedure, in order to let things start to heal in there. You don't want an infection. That would make things worse and put off TTC for longer.

(I wasn't sedated either.)

 

[DBZ34]

Hooray Stine!! I'm glad that you'll be able to go forward!

I was so cross at your doctor for messing you about so badly with the femara. But I'm so glad to hear that now that he's prescribed you a proper dose of the stuff, that you're responding and things are ready to go!


Kat- How exciting that you're already starting your next IUI. I know this is just filling time until you move to IVF, but I hope you'll get lucky this time around!!


AFM- Still in limbo...not happy at all with my cheapy tests, so I'm going to buy a proper test for Wednesday when it's time for the official test. Hopefully I'll see a better line...or a line at all. Here's holding out hope for a BFP.

 

[Purpleice]

Hello everyone. So sorry to hear AF showed up recently for some of you ladies. Crossing my fingers for all of us in the TWW period, hope AF doesn't show. I'm on CD 27, (I have an ave of 27-30 days cycle). I had an Ovidrel Shot at CD 10. Is is true that I should have ovulated 36-48 hours after the shot? If that is, when can AF come? On my computation (provided that I Oed on CD 12) I'm on my 15th day of waiting. I don't know how and what to feel. I have little cramps on my pelvic area, on either side of the uterus, just like what happens when AF is due. I feel so nervous! This is my first cycle with medication. I hope and pray to get a BFP in the next few days. No to Aunt Flo!