Natsby
Luca born 9-11-2012
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For those of us who have been on this road for a while it can seem like it is all stress and struggle and trying to persuade a tired OH that yes, now is the moment, and no it won´t wait until he is in the mood!!
But my theory this cycle is that the way I felt the first cycle trying was a happier and healthier way of thinking about TTc and i´m trying to mentally get back there.
My first cycle I got a BFP at the end of that very first month. Sadly I didn´t go full term, but still I was doing something right. SO I´m trying to feel that excited by the possibility of it working, thankful that OH has agreed we can try, thankful he is with me at all. It isn´t easy, I can´t forget the mcs or the months of BFNs, or any of the last two years, but I can sort of remember the excitement and try to concentrate on that. It may not work but i feel happier and less stressed so we shall see.
And you ladies, how long is it since you felt excited about TTC? Are you like me, has it become an almighty chore that sucks? who will join me and try to enjoy it again?
But my theory this cycle is that the way I felt the first cycle trying was a happier and healthier way of thinking about TTc and i´m trying to mentally get back there.
My first cycle I got a BFP at the end of that very first month. Sadly I didn´t go full term, but still I was doing something right. SO I´m trying to feel that excited by the possibility of it working, thankful that OH has agreed we can try, thankful he is with me at all. It isn´t easy, I can´t forget the mcs or the months of BFNs, or any of the last two years, but I can sort of remember the excitement and try to concentrate on that. It may not work but i feel happier and less stressed so we shall see.
And you ladies, how long is it since you felt excited about TTC? Are you like me, has it become an almighty chore that sucks? who will join me and try to enjoy it again?