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Lucas Dean is here!!! Birth Story with pictures

Amsan

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Now that I'm *somewhat* less drugged, I'll see how much of my birth story I can remember lol.

I started having some pretty inconsistent contractions Friday afternoon around lunch time. I didn't think anything of it because, well, it had been pretty normal and I wasn't 100% sure I was having actual contractions as they weren't terribly painful. Work was letting me off early anyway, so I wasn't too worried but I still started to time them. They were pretty inconsistent, usually between 5-10 minutes apart. I thought it was nothing, so mom and I went and had dinner. At dinner, the contractions finally were starting to hurt. I figured after dinner, I'd go home and shower and see if they were the real deal. By the time we had gotten home and I had showered, they REALLY hurt and there was NO denying it!
Got to the hospital around 5:30-6:00 pm. The doctor was telling me that the machine wasn't picking up my contractions, and he couldn't feel my stomach tightening up either with his own hands. When we got there, I was only dilated to a 1 still. After he told me this, I had just lost it. I knew there was no way I could handle "real" labor, if that in fact wasn't it!
Another nurse came in and suggested I sit up and see if the contractions would be picked up then. And wouldn't you know it, they started to register on the monitor! An hour after getting to the hospital, I was already dilated to a 3 so they finally admitted me and gave me a shot of synthetic morphine to take the edge off until I get the epidural.
Sent me upstairs, by the time I got the epidural I was at 4 cm dilated. Then it just stalled out. Finally at 5 cm they broke my water to help speed things up.
After I got the epidural I wasn't feeling ANYTHING. I could move my legs, etc but I wasn't feeling ANY contractions. At all. And I was NOT complaining.
During this time, they started to notice that Lucas' heart beat was dropping significantly low to about 60 bpm during my contractions, but would also jump right back up to his normal rate. They put me on oxygen and did an amnioinfusion to see if that would help things out. It didn't. They didn't want it to turn into an emergency scenario so they had discussed doing a c section. At this point I believe I was at a 5 or 7 cm dilated and they were waiting on my regular OB to come in and make the decision. While they were waiting, they decided to go ahead and prep me for a c section, meaning they gave me ANOTHER dose of an epidural, as well as a shot to stop my contractions to give the baby a break.
As soon as my doctor got there, he decided we would try a vacuum assist instead of a c section as I was already at 9 cm dilated. By this point, with the second epidural, I felt absolutely NOTHING. I couldn't move my legs. I couldn't feel anyone touching my legs. I couldn't feel ANYTHING from the waist down. I was terrified I wouldn't have been able to push because I couldn't feel anything to push! My doctor decided to do a few practice runs to see how well I would do with pushing since I couldn't feel anything. He started saying anything and everything to piss me off to get me to actually push. I finally told them to shut the epidural off so I could feel something in order TO push. This was done at 2:30am on 10/12/13. By 3:19, I had finally managed to feel enough to push this little guy out! And I didn't feel ANYTHING. I felt the pressure from him coming out, and that was it. I didn't feel the crowning. Nadda.
And he is so far perfectly content and happy and healthy!!!!

Just wanted to update on a separate thread so it wouldn't be hard to go through 50+ pages just for the birth story and pictures!
Can't wait to hear from the rest of you ladies and I will see you in the baby club!
 

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Oh wow, congratulations!! Fantastic news and what a gorgeous little boy! When I was in labour with my son, we had the same problem of his heart keep dropping with each contraction. Glad he's here and doing well xxx
 
Thank you for sharing your story and congratulations!!! He's beautiful :) :thumbup:
 
He is so cute and love the name! Congratulations again Amsan!

-AussieBub
 
Thanks everyone! I only just finally decided on the name yesterday afternoon :haha: But he definitely looks like a Lucas to me! I am so absolutely smitten with him.
 
aw congratulations he is adorable! Glad u are both doing well. And thankyou for sharing your story...it is always nice and assuring for FTMs what to expect.
 
Congratulations Amsan. I read every page of your other post (but didn't say anything because I didn't want to catch all your guys' baby dust :haha:) He is gorgeous. I am very happy for you. Wonderful name as well. Good choice!
 
aw congratulations he is adorable! Glad u are both doing well. And thankyou for sharing your story...it is always nice and assuring for FTMs what to expect.

As a FTM, I was soooo petrified before actually going into labor about what it would all feel like.. Until the time was here and I was literally in this... like, fog? I guess is what it seemed like. None of it seemed real, so none of it seemed to be as painful as I thought it was going to be. I used to think that hours and hours of labor would be MISERABLE, but it really did feel like the time flew by!
Still waiting for reality to set in that I now have another life to look after!
 
aw congratulations he is adorable! Glad u are both doing well. And thankyou for sharing your story...it is always nice and assuring for FTMs what to expect.

As a FTM, I was soooo petrified before actually going into labor about what it would all feel like.. Until the time was here and I was literally in this... like, fog? I guess is what it seemed like. None of it seemed real, so none of it seemed to be as painful as I thought it was going to be. I used to think that hours and hours of labor would be MISERABLE, but it really did feel like the time flew by!
Still waiting for reality to set in that I now have another life to look after!

This makes me feel so much better!! :hugs:

Congratulations!! He's absolutely gorgeous! :cloud9::hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
aw congratulations he is adorable! Glad u are both doing well. And thankyou for sharing your story...it is always nice and assuring for FTMs what to expect.

As a FTM, I was soooo petrified before actually going into labor about what it would all feel like.. Until the time was here and I was literally in this... like, fog? I guess is what it seemed like. None of it seemed real, so none of it seemed to be as painful as I thought it was going to be. I used to think that hours and hours of labor would be MISERABLE, but it really did feel like the time flew by!
Still waiting for reality to set in that I now have another life to look after!

This makes me feel so much better!! :hugs:

Congratulations!! He's absolutely gorgeous! :cloud9::hugs::hugs::hugs:

Not going to lie though, the contractions I was feeling in the beginning were a BITCH! There was no mistaking those and nothing foggy about those! But when they gave me something to take the edge off, I was on cloud 9 and maybe that's what put me in a fog for the rest of the time lol. Even the epidural wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it was going to be.

Thank you very much! I will be anxiously awaiting your birth story too!!!!!
 
He's crazy gorgeous! At least FOB was good for something ;)

Congrats again lovely x
 
He's crazy gorgeous! At least FOB was good for something ;)

Congrats again lovely x

Thank you!!! And thankfully he looks mostly like me ;) He's got his dad's nose and eyes and that's about it!
 
Aaahh he's lovely, Congratulations!..xx
 
Aww he's just gorgeous :-D well done you!!!!

(stories like yours make me want an epidural! Lol. ) xxx
 
Congratulations Amsan, he is absolutely adorable. I love the picture of both of you. He has so much hair as well!
Enjoy all of the cuddles. Xx
 

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