M/C 18 months ago... now I'm afraid!

[mumaoftwoboys]

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This is our second month trying ... it usually happens first month for me so I panicked a little, I had a vaery very faint positive this morning (4 days before AF is due)... I have also had terrible cramps yesterday and today has anyone had this before? I'm paranoid I could miscarry again... do we ever get past this feeling of worry? I don't want to worry myself to the point that I stress myself out and end up having a m/c!!!

 

[Kasey84]

Hi Hun, sorry to hear of your previous loss. My mc was almost 1 year ago and I'm 15 weeks pregnant now. I'd like to tell you that the worry goes away, but unfortunately I don't think it does. I think it's quite normal to be worried and anxious about pregnancy after you've experienced a loss. Things are going perfectly for me so far, but I still worry. It has eased up a little, but I doubt the worry will ever completely go away. Fortunately, I don't think worry or stress will cause another mc.

The first time I tested with this pregnancy I got a faint positive. It was around the time that AF would have been due, but hard to say exactly as my cycles were irregular. Just a couple of days later the I got a stronger positive.

Take care of yourself! Hugs

 

[mumaoftwoboys]

Thanks Kasey. I'm hoping the regular scans will keep my mind at ease...

 

[Kasey84]

Wishing you all the best! Keep us posted