Mad!

[xoash729xxo]

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and my parents kicked me out, because of me being pregnant. Well, I'm living with my boyfriend and his mom, and when we got home from school today I noticed that my mom's car was in his driveway. I didn't even want to go inside I was an emotional wreck, I just started crying, and my boyfriend had to coax me to get me into his house. When we got inside my mom was sitting on their couch talking to my bfs mom. She was telling her how we were to young for a baby, and all about how my bf and me have a life ahead of us and that the baby would just ruin it. She was trying to talk my bf into getting me to give the baby up. He kept saying he wanted to keep the baby, but I now feel like my parents are trying to ruin me. They want me to give the baby up every chance they get.


My bf's mom she says she supports every decision we make because she was only 18 when he was born so she knows what we are going through. My mom doesn't understand that I knew what could happen when I had sex, and now I have to deal with the responsibilty like a big girl, and I want the baby. I'm afraid my parents are going to like eventually going to turn my bf against me, or pay him off or something.

I'm scared and angry, and really emotionaly. I know its not my mom's fault I"m in this problem, and I don't expect her to bail me out, but I don't get why she doesn't get that I want the baby. Sure I'm young, but I had sex. I want the baby. Let me keep it. Thats what I wish she would learn.

 

[Alexis]

i know you're young, and probably scared, but its your body and ultimately is IS your decision. youre doing the responsible thing by keeping your baby and taking responsability for what you did. you have a precious miricle inside of you and i wish you all the best. give it time, your parents will come around. after all, youre still THEIR baby.

if you need anything PM me. im 19, so im still fairly young.

 

[dizzy65]

awe i no u were old enough to lay down and make the baby why not let u keep it.. wow thats not good at all. dont give in at all.. dont abort it and dont give it up for adoption unless u absolutly want to. and dont let ur parents talk to ur bf... err thats annoying.. my parents were opposite of that they said when i was 13 if i got pregnant because they suspected i wa already sexually active that i would have to keep the baby as punishment to myself. they said there wasabsolutly no other way.. i would never abort a baby or give it up.. stay strong

 

[KarenLV]

Sorry,dont have advice but am hoping things turn out for the best for you and your baby.

 

[LilMama2be]

Hey :]

I can relate quite a bit, I'm 17, pregnant but i'm not with the father anymore. My mom wasn't supportive AT ALL at first. Both my parents threatened to kick me out when i turn 18 (10 days before the baby is due).

but..
after talking it over with her we agreed on something, if I prove to her that I AM trying to be responsible and staying out of trouble , i can stay and she'll support me.
She said she wouldn't kick me out on the street because i don't have a boyfriend to go to, and i dont know many people who would take me in (That i'm comfortable living it).
She said if i did have to leave, i'd be living in an apartment, she'd help pay rent, but the problem is, i'd be stuck there basically all day.
Although i dont mind that idea, i'd rather live at home with my family for atleast 6 months before i move out.

=] if you need to talk i'm here you can always message me. :]

 

[LongRoadAhead]

Hun, Your mum is in shock, come on her little girl is gunna be a mummy herself soon. Shes just looking out for you and wants you to have the best, And maybe at the moment she thinks that having a baby isnt the best thing for you as your young. You've got to give her time and space to take it in and eventually come to terms with it and except it.
My mum was exactly the same! Im 17 and my BF is 20, When I told her I was pregnant she assumed I was going to have an abortion and do what was 'best'. I wasnt though, I never would. I made it clear to her that I was keeping MY baby and NO-ONE could make me change my mind, And I went and stayed with my nan for a few days and when I got home my mum had accepted and realised its what I wanted and no matter how much she went on Id never get rid. And now a couple of months on, things couldnt be better!She is so excited for me and went and braught my pram and cant wait to meet her grandchild.
Honestly just wait a while, stay at your boyfriends house for a while and then approach your mum again and make it clear to her that your keeping your baby. Dont get mouthy about it though, Remember its her grandchild and Im sure she'll want to be there for you once the shock wares off
X

 

[Beth_18]

hope it all gets better for you hun. your mum will come round im sure x x x

 

[tasha41]

I know it's frustrating but it's only because your mom really wants you to have the best life you possibly can. You're still her baby and she's just worried. I don't think parents mean to cause us all this stress, but I know my parents at least just wanted me to have a normal life, going out and partying with my friends and finishing school on time.. Once the idea of you having a baby kind of settles in her mind, she'll come around and want to be more involved and probably get excited to have a new little baby around.