dustbunny
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You ladies in this forum know how much I love to rant - so again - here we go... well kind of.
I am now 100% certain I made the right decision with regards to giving out information freely. I am not withholding information, if I am asked I will answer. So... apparently my ex, the oh so annoying FOB, was super excited about going to the 20 week scan, over the moon, couldn't stop talking about it, physically pulled the sun from the sky and hurled it about with his excitement... 18 weeks came and went with no txt re the scan time etc... 19 weeks came and went and again no txt or anything of the slightest... the 20th week [although I am still in it] has come and gone and the scan was last Thursday.... nothing. Not a peep, a squeak or even a squeal RE the 20 week scan. Now, it could be argued he didn't know... but apparently he keeps up to date with my pregnancy.
So, for someone who cares so much.... he did fuck all. Am I surprised? No... hurt? A bit. Slowly bit by bit the will for him to include himself is ebbing away.
He did text me a couple days ago "Hows you and bump? I haven't sent you flowers or anything this week because I didn't want to stress you out." Regardless of me having asked him to stop with all that, that I had had enough of it all and I didn't want to do that anymore. I stressed he could ask about the baby and with regards to me and him... no, never going to happen. So I didn't rise to the bate of the argument, he can think he instigated the not stressing me out [oh the irony as that is all he has been doing since day 1] and I just text back: "The baby is fine."
I don't know if I said a follow up on the flowers but... the next day he sent me another bouquet [bearing in mind the day before he had phoned me to tell me I was materialistic and should be grateful for what I get] to find a note with a direct quote of what I said he should of said.
And that is the last I have heard, nothing about a job, money for the baby or anything baby related at all.
I just don't want him around at all, simple as really.
I am now 100% certain I made the right decision with regards to giving out information freely. I am not withholding information, if I am asked I will answer. So... apparently my ex, the oh so annoying FOB, was super excited about going to the 20 week scan, over the moon, couldn't stop talking about it, physically pulled the sun from the sky and hurled it about with his excitement... 18 weeks came and went with no txt re the scan time etc... 19 weeks came and went and again no txt or anything of the slightest... the 20th week [although I am still in it] has come and gone and the scan was last Thursday.... nothing. Not a peep, a squeak or even a squeal RE the 20 week scan. Now, it could be argued he didn't know... but apparently he keeps up to date with my pregnancy.
So, for someone who cares so much.... he did fuck all. Am I surprised? No... hurt? A bit. Slowly bit by bit the will for him to include himself is ebbing away.
He did text me a couple days ago "Hows you and bump? I haven't sent you flowers or anything this week because I didn't want to stress you out." Regardless of me having asked him to stop with all that, that I had had enough of it all and I didn't want to do that anymore. I stressed he could ask about the baby and with regards to me and him... no, never going to happen. So I didn't rise to the bate of the argument, he can think he instigated the not stressing me out [oh the irony as that is all he has been doing since day 1] and I just text back: "The baby is fine."
I don't know if I said a follow up on the flowers but... the next day he sent me another bouquet [bearing in mind the day before he had phoned me to tell me I was materialistic and should be grateful for what I get] to find a note with a direct quote of what I said he should of said.
And that is the last I have heard, nothing about a job, money for the baby or anything baby related at all.
I just don't want him around at all, simple as really.
like a notepad with notes jotted down. lol.. He doesnt really have a clue how to 'woo' someone. lol. 
with big hopes he has a brother!!! 
