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Maison James born 23-4-2012

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I wanted to share my story of our suprise pregnancy and give hope to all those out there TTC. My fiancé and I have been together for three years and were told early along in our relationship the chances of us having a little one was slim so we became very career orientated with him completing an apprenticeship n working in the coal and I continued external studying while working at a daycare.

Everything seemed to be cosy, we built a nice house and kept working but making sure there was time with each other- occassionally I would bring up maybe trying for a kid but my partners explained it was too painful to set up for failure. During this time I was on the pill and had been for our whole relationship.

Two days before fathers day I felt extremely sick- like I was hungover but hadn't had a drink in a long time. Still sick on the Monday my partner took me to our GP thinking working in Childcare I had a stomach bug- my GP tested me for all putting it down to food poisoning.

On the Wednesday we got a call to make an appt with the doctor so we went in that afternoon and were extremely excited and delighted to hear I was 8 weeks pregnant- we couldn't understand why considering odds were against us and I took the pill. The GPs exact words which I never will forget was "this is god gift to you, you both deserve it- miracles happen"

We were excited abd delighted and kept it a secret until twelve weeks- the day we both agreed to start telling people is still a blur. I rang family anf then went to txt anf ring friends but I got a call from a friend telling me her 8 month old had died of SIDS last night- I automatically felt numb. The reality of having a baby scared me as I had a precious gift that cOuld be taken from me at any time- I decided to keep it to ourselves and helped with taking their daughter to the park and cooking meals etc.

My whole pregnancy I had terrible dreams and was scared to love him too much in case something happened. At 20 weeks my OBGYN told me although he was small for his GA he was a healthy baby boy. My partner was delighted.

At 36+4 my handsome man could not shake the hiccups. He was moving so much and kicking line a football. But I thought nothing of it considering I has no pre labour symptoms and hasn't even dropped but at 10pm that night my waters broke and the next morning I had a precious baby boy.

Maison James was born on the 23-4-2012 weighing 7pound 7.

Everything about him was perfect and I kept checking with the nurse to ensure he was ok abd he was actually ours. My partner automatically had a bond and we had no issues or complications.

Were so blessed to have such a happy, content beautiful boy abd couldn't ask for any more.

I hope this reaches out for those trying to concieve. Because even if the odds are against you anything is possible.

God may just give u that precious gift you ask for.
 

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